My boyfriend its very close to my bestfriend and to make it worst he regard her as a sister, and she call him and contact him everyday, i get so very jelous, but the thing is i only found out now that they in contact, fyi, i'm the one who intro them, but only just to introduction purpose, not that i want them to be close in any way, and my boyfriend wont leave my bestfriend as he say, he and she didnt do anything wrong or having an affair, but i cant just live with that. Me and my bestfriend not talking anymore, so what shall i do, should i leave him or her, I love my boyfriend very much, and i know he love me too.. pls help me i'm so confused
2006-12-04 12:51:56 · 7 answers · asked by eid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should leave him cuz he might just cheat on u but if u love him and he loves u then he wouldnt be flirting with ur best Friend and if she really is ur best friend then she would no not to do that to u cuz that is what friends do they dont try to get with the best friends bf or gf. so if she isnt talking to u anymore then u should leave her. good luck!!!
2006-12-04 13:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by Hyper Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it depends on how you think. Personally, if I were in your shoe I will just leave both of them. I think that even though he can treat your best friend as a sister but how will your best friend think? She may have began to fall in love with your bf. If this is the case you will be the loser eventually. So think over carefully what you want to do coz you may not win in this type of relationship.
2006-12-04 17:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to say you choose either best friend or boyfriend. either way you will lose someone. but the problem here is you. you cant seem to control your jealousy enough to trust them. without trust there is no love or friendship. and if they see each other as close friends then they may continue to talk no matter what you want. so i suggest that you might want to try to control your jealousy, trust them within reason and accept their friendship. and remember it could be worse they could hate each other with a fiery vengeance. just stay calm, agree to some rules for them and try to get along.
2006-12-04 13:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe leave both, since they both treat you with little regard.
2006-12-04 12:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by Vianka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-04 12:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer. . . THREESOME!!!! And go take some English lessons as well.
2006-12-04 12:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know what to say good luck
2006-12-04 12:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋