I want to get rid of this crush. I've liked this girl for more then a month now and I even got rejected by her. I see her everyday at school, I even try to stop looking at her and pay no attenion to her but I still have feelings for her. How can I over come these feelings
2006-12-04 12:49:44 · 10 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm going through the same thing now...just think of it like this...its their loss and there is someone out there better for you and is deserving of everything you have to offer!
2006-12-04 12:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by GIO847 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun but the only thing that can help you is time. I know that sounds so cliche but you need to realize that she obviously is not the one for you.
Try to keep yourself busy, take up a hobby, join a team or club, hang out with your friends. Anything to help you from thinking about her.
Eventually, the feelings will subside and you will feel them for someone else that feels the same way back.
You deserve someone that cares for you too.Trust me it doesnt feel like it right now b/c rejection is so painful, but you WILL feel better.
2006-12-04 20:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds bad but try thinking bad thoughts of her. Its only been a month, that is not long, it will pass. Try finding someone else or something to keep your mind off her. Don't bother looking at her and for too long.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-04 20:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try talking to her..I still have feelings for my crush, and he rejected me...and I'm still getting over it....that was three months ago...
2006-12-04 20:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by <3 Jennie <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard when you see her everyday! How about asking another girl out or crushing on another person? Like take all your focus and put it on another girl. There must be some1 secretly crushing on you so look out for her and maybe ask her out!
2006-12-04 20:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on something else, something you like to do. maybe make some new friends, too. you have to be the better person here, instead of moping around cause she doesn't like you back. you have to make sure she knows you're over her, and you don't care (even if you're not and you do). you'll be over her in no time. hey, she may even come around to liking you. ya never know :)
2006-12-04 20:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by sammie.leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get down to earth!
You deserve to be treated better so if someone turned you down she is not for you.
Stop following someone.. Don't you feel ashamed ?
well, that's how i think and it works for me even if i know im over
reacting
2006-12-04 20:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it wont be easy cause its clear u really like. her well it will take take time but i know there are other girls that u might be interested in try doin stuff to get ur mind off her and try not to be around her as much
2006-12-04 20:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a new crush my friend.
2006-12-04 20:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are no body until some one loves you. try harder buddy!
2006-12-04 20:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Lucas S 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋