I want to know if I'm jealous or not. My brother got a girlfriend. He's spending all his time with her. I was folding laundry with him one day. we split it 50/50. I was done with my half and I noticed he was gone. He only did half of his half, which is 1/4 of the laundry. I finished his half for him and then I found him chatting on the computer with his girlfriend. He said that he couldn't finish his laundry because he was talking with his girlfriend, so i said," So?" and well, yeah. I feel kinda left out.
2006-12-04 12:47:19 · 9 answers · asked by Kathy T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It may be that you and your brother had a close relationship and now that he has a girlfriend in the picture, you are no longer his one and only special girl(not in a sick way) and you feel left out.
2006-12-04 12:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Enterrador 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't really sound like jealous it's more like your being taken advantage of. You probably should have left his half of the laundry. Don't think of it as mean, just as "doing your fair share" Then again do your own thing and don't worry about what he is doing. You could always find something else to do with your time.
2006-12-04 12:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by BonBon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh honey, dont worry abt being jealous or blame urself for it. its normal for any sister to react that way when her bro dates a girl and gives her too much attention. well maybe u could try talking to ur bro and basically just tell him that u feel a little left out and that things arent the same as they used to be when he wasnt dating. and hey he is ur bro so he'd obviously understand and probably spend more time with u than he does...and that will be great!
i hope i helped out...
take care!
2006-12-04 20:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by moi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first, thanks for the math update although we didn't really need it. I don't know if I would say that you are jealous or just expecting your brother to do his half of the chores like he is supposed to.
2006-12-04 12:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well looks like you know your math! as for jealous i think your just pissed off you had to do his laundry - i wouldve told him to have his girlfriend do it
2006-12-04 12:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt have felt left out...I'd a felt pissed...but oh wait...I wouldn't have felt pissed coz I woulda left his laundry wet and in a pile...
2006-12-04 12:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its just a new thing...lol
get to know her...go to the movies with her...just you two..become best friends and you won't have a problem with it...lol
but i know how u feell...hopefully it goes away...lol
it will though...just get to know her...and yes,,you are jealous...=(
lol
2006-12-04 12:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Move on.
2006-12-04 12:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you seem to be slightly jealous.
2006-12-04 12:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋