okay! say you went out with this really cute and the most sweetest guy!! but you had a busy life style {for an example: gymnastics,track,swimming,prussure,drama,and skool!! whould you break up with him!!
2006-12-04 12:47:06 · 24 answers · asked by gymdogs101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not if you really like him! There is always time for someone, somewhere! If you want there to be! If it to hectic for you then ditch him!
2006-12-04 12:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by knangel19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i really liked him i would make sure he knew about my busy schedule from the start, but like i said if i really liked him i would make time for him. But if you are the guy in this situation and want to stay with this girl you can't complain about the limited time she has for you. you know that she is a busy girl, so you will have to accept that she will spend all the time she can with you, even if its not enough! If you are the girl in the situation, just tell the guy your situation and let him know that you like him, but there are other things that come first in your life, make time for him when you can, but it will be limited. If he accepts it then you are good to go. But don't be surprised if he doesn't some people need more attention than others. But remember never give up any of your activities for a bf or gf and the other way around never make a bf or gf give up their activities for you. i hope i could help.
2006-12-04 12:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Patience is a virtue! Be a little patient and if things did not work out in the both of you alls favor, I would then tell him how I felt, If things still did not get better, then I would dump him. I am guessing you would be a tad bit upset, but you would not break up w/ him on impulse b/c you may have regret it. This if the shoe was on the other foot!
Good luck!
2006-12-04 12:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I are busy people but because we care so much about each other we make the time even if it means we have to skip a week or two or three. We talk on the phone when we can and try to find time in between out crazy schedules.
2006-12-04 12:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by sassy sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day, you will have to get rid of your busy lifestyle...all of the things that you do now, will form the person you eventually become, but will not have a huge affect and take up all your time like they do now...
if you see a good potential relationship with this guy, and he knows that you are busy, go for it. just make sure that you are ready and willing to make your life even more hectic by letting him in, which you will have to do. you have to make time for him, even though you feel like you have no time. it will mean a lot.
on the other hand, if you don't see a lot of potential. continue on with your busy life until you find someone that is worth making your schedule more busy!
2006-12-04 12:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd break up with him if I did not care for him, however, if he is into you, then he has to accept your life style and you need to let him know that your interest come first.
Also, I'm sure if you wanted to be with him, you could schedule time for meals and perhaps a movie and quality time. Now, what do you think?
2006-12-04 12:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by latietee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. You'll find some time. and P.S., guys love a challenge. The problem with some girls is they make themselves too available to fit into the guys schedule. Make them run after you and they will. If he truly can't handle your schedule, he'll move on. Don't make that decision for him, he may surprise you.
2006-12-04 12:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Vi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you? If everythings going fine and you at least make time to spend with him and he's not complaining...Or are you tired of juggling it all? What's most important your guy or sports??? You'd have a lot more time if you just gave up a couple of things.
2006-12-04 12:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by C_1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. just tell him your busy with gymnastics,track,swimming,plus school. spend 4 days a week together.
Good Luck =) :)
2006-12-04 12:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by Baller21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!!! do you still get a chance to hang out on weekends and stuff!! do you really like him?? those are the things that matter? do you see him at school?? i wouldnt however are the only things that you like about him are that he is cute or are there other things that you like( ie he is sweet, funny, caring) about him?? i hope that you know what you should do! good luck
2006-12-04 12:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by xWill_Smith_Luverx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would just try to get some time off, If your even a little like me you don't want to give up either, so I say Don't lose him, and don't lose your cool, Kepp 'em both, try your best to get some time off to get toghter w/him even if its only an hour or so.;}
2006-12-04 12:52:40 · answer #11 · answered by Alxias 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋