Why do guys only want me for my body? Why can't they go for my personality AND more?
2006-12-04 12:26:40 · 14 answers · asked by cowgirl29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well most of the guys out there are total jerks. They take the great girls like you away from charming and genuine guys like me. I do want to admit that a pretty smile always catches my eye, but if a girl has a bad personality i run. You must be attracting guys that only want one thing. You will find a prince one day, just wait for the right guy. You from buffalo by any chance? The sabres are drinking from the cup this year, followed by me taking shots of crown out of lord stanley downtown when we win it. look for me on tv with my center ice tickets 14 rows up....be jealous!
2006-12-04 13:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Italian Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find that every guy you go for only wants you for your body, you are going for the wrong guys. And honestly by your comment, i get the feeling that you are going out looking for men at clubs or bars and wearing sexy outfits, if that is the case of coarse they are only gonna want you for your bod, that is what they are at places like that for. If that is not the case i in no way meant to offend you, but if it is i suggest wearing more conservative clothes and meeting men in other places. Maybe have a friend set you up with someone and when you go on the first date don't show off your bod. If you don't put it out there in their face they will be interested in your personality and more.
2006-12-04 20:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Bubby'sGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys you care about will see more than just your appearance. But if you have a nice body you can expect that guys who don't get to know you will still be instantly attracted to the way you look. Guys are visual, that's why Playboy is such a success. But the same guy who is initially struck by your beauty may still be the guy who grows to love the twinkle in your eyes and the way you can discern what other people need.
2006-12-04 20:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are silly like that... They are usually very visual creatures as well.. I would think that after going out on a date with you they will see more than your body.. If they don't move on to the next.
2006-12-04 20:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by GirlWithQuestions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like beautiful things...it's that simple. As women it is our duty to b pretty. So enjoy being a woman dear. As u age they won't b so interested so catch em now...show them your brains later !
2006-12-04 20:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps this is the way you are displaying your self. This is the way they are noticing you because this is what you are showing them. Reevaluate yourself. Be honest with yourself , what is the first impression you are giving to people? Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-04 20:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They see you for what you portray yourself as...try dressing more conservative (i'm not talking granny either you can be sexy with cons. to) and having a more keen eye for the "traits" that attract you to this style of man.
2006-12-04 20:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should cover your body more so they dont see it then they will notice other things....like personality
2006-12-04 20:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's the way you carry yourself. how would you know they want you just for your body?
2006-12-04 20:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it jsut means you havent found the right guy or vice versa
2006-12-04 20:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋