Life has been so hard for me right now. I wake up every day dreading to go to school. The world is just a mean place to live, but what other choice do I have? I just lost my best friend, we're trying to work things out but i doubt we'll be friends again. I have no one I can trust at all. I worry about almost every single thing. No matter what happens, I'm sad and depressed. I put on an act for people every day. I really need someone to listen to me and understand what I'm going through. & give me good advice or at least make me happy.
I feel lonely
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anyone?
2006-12-04 12:20:31 · 7 answers · asked by Skyla 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Just know that you are not alone. Many of us have troubles to deal with every day. The world is a mean place but there are a lot of good people in it. If you are feeling like life is so bad now, it can only get better! Think of the perfect life for you and strive toward that. One day you will be happy, trust me. I was once where you are now. Keep on going and think positive
2006-12-04 12:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello...I am a 47 year old mother of 2...I just want you to know that I hear you...As a teenager I struggled very much with loneliness, feeling as though I was very much alone in the world. I was convinced by the age of 14 that I would always be sad. It will get better, high school is but for a season. I would be very happy to be an ear for you....I am just not sure how to make that happen. If this is something you need, just add some more to your question saying you would like it....and I will edit this and get one to you.
2006-12-04 20:44:37 · answer #2 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, one of the best pieces of advice for you would be that you learn to make yourself happy. You can not make anyone else happy until yo are happy with yourself. If you are truly sad and depressed every day, you need to make yourself trust someone, a counselor, or doctor, or parent, or teacher, who can steer you in the right direction for help. Sometimes just talking honestly and openly with someone will help. School can be a tough place to be, especially if you are there for social reasons instead of educational reasons. Stop focusing on other people, focus on yourself, and believe that you are worth fighting for, forget all the other people who hurt you, and get the best education you can get while you are in school, and your life will just fall into order. I know it doesn't seem like it right now, but if you look around you at the people, the ones who are truly happy are the ones who treat their education with the respect it deserves, and the ones who are unhappiest are the ones that are there because of social reasons. They don't do homework, they are disrespectful of teachers and others in authority, they are disruptive in their behavior, in their dress, in their manners (or lack of them), they are troubled at home and it boils over into their lives and comes out as hatefulness, jealousy, ugliness that makes you feel like the world is a mean place to live. It really isn't, dear. It is what you make of it. Don't think it's too late for you to be happy. Your life is just beginning. But you will only get out of it what you put into it.
God bless you, and in case you don't already, find a church with a good youth group, and you will find a different sort of people.
2006-12-04 20:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by charlies mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sort of know what you feel like. My dad is an alcohlic, i am loosing one of my friends to my worse enimy, I have 3 LDs, and i am getting over cutting my self (DONT DO IT IF YOU HAVENT ALREADY STARTED). if you want to talk IM me at jvbabybluegirl@yahoo.com.
2006-12-04 20:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me or email me anytime. A good way to meet people is to go to a christian church.
2006-12-04 20:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by ○○I am kayla○○ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont put on an act
be true to yourself, and you will learn to be happy with yourself
when your happy with yourself others will be happy with you
2006-12-04 20:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Suednim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope......Nobody out here cares!
Sounds to me like you need a professional counselor.
2006-12-04 20:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋