I know that me and my boyfriend aren't ready to have a child yet, but I canm't stop thinking about getting pregnant. I am 23 years old and he is 25, and I can't say I feel that our biologycal clocks are ticking. At the same time I want and don't want to get pregnant, and all because of different reasons. I can't explain why I feel this way, can't explain it to myself or to him.
2006-12-04 12:19:40 · 12 answers · asked by celia3018 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You should get married before you have any kids. Kids have a right to be born into a family with the certainty that marriage can provide. But don't get married unless you both are certain that you are completely willing to be honest with each other, faithful to each other and to continue doing everything you can to make each other happy. You must get rid of your selfish ways and focus on your husband. If you aren't interested in getting married or if you haven't found the guy you want to be with for all eternity, don't get married and don't have kids. Premarital counseling is the best idea. Then, once you are married, you and your husband need to sit down again and have serious discussions about how your child(ren) will be raised and how specific situations will be handled. Please do not take these decisions lightly and please do not make another baby be born into a single parent home. Good Luck!
2006-12-04 12:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal especially when everyone around you has kids. It's blessing but at the same time make sure that is something you want. If there are things you want to get accomplished then go ahead and get that out the way first. Having a baby is a 24/7 job and it doesn't stop ever. So if you have any little selfish thought then wait. Give it time and make sure your boyfriend is going to be there for the long haul. At first everything is great then when the baby comes the story changes. So follow your heart and pray about it. The thought doesn't last as long as the baby......
Good Luck
2006-12-04 13:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Laya Mom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its that maternal instinct kicking in! Just wait until you both know you are ready. You have lots of time, like you said- your biological clock hasn't quite started to tick yet.
2006-12-04 12:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all girls start to feel like that but first thik of your situation and tray to make a savings acount so when you are realy ready to make a famely
2006-12-04 12:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Melly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's natural. I'm about the same age and that maternal nature is kicking in!!
2006-12-04 12:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you´re not sure, better to wait...BTW I do understand you, I have had these kind of feelings for years on a daily basis ...perfectly normal to be thinking of these things...
2006-12-04 12:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a biological clock so I couldn't tell you.
2006-12-04 16:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait til you are 101% sure!
2006-12-04 12:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by rgdet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is normel how you feel .just you are ready to be mother that all
2006-12-04 17:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by NO 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a puppie instead..
2006-12-04 12:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by BAARAAACK 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋