My boyfriend was the result of a one night stand on the east coast and then his mother moved away, due to situational circumstances, and Had my boyfriend. He has had a tough road and some really unfortunate life experiences due to that, But currently is doing extremely well, he is 26 years old and keeps mentioning that before we get married in the next year or two that he would some how some way like to find his father, (his mother is of no help) is there any way I could do this for him? there is alot of anxiety related to this issue .... your thoughts would be apreciated.....
2006-12-04 12:18:21 · 5 answers · asked by Baby Girl due Sept 5th!!!!!!!!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Did his mother have a girlfriend ,sister, or another family member she may have confided in at the time of her pregnancy? Maybe if you or someone else the mother is closer to could explain to her how important this is to her son, and that it doesn't mean he wants to put a bad reflection on her for things in the past, they may be more willing to help. He may want to also tell her it's important for him to know what he can about his fathers medical history, because he'll want children someday. Good luck!
2006-12-04 12:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could hire an investigator, contact Montel Williams Show who can do it better without cost to you. Contact people in the town/city she may have known and go from there. Maybe sisters or brothers she may have had. Know her birthdate, if so try and find the Birth Certificate. Good Luck and I wish the best for you both.
2006-12-04 20:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear it- it may have been a one night stand- but does he or his mother know the name?? Go to big yellow book and type in residents, name and city and search away- is the name of the birth certificate- he can get a copy - we contact the health dept here for that-it is possible his mom may not be sure who that dad is and is ashamed to admit it- take care-D
2006-12-04 20:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start giving information on Yahoo Answers. Also, go on people search. Go to the place where his father is from and inquire at the town hall, phone books, schools, etc. One place might lead you to another. Good luck.
2006-12-04 20:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by Nunya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.givenright.com. try her
2006-12-04 20:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by JASNJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋