ok well i asked a question before if this guy liked me on here like last week and i thought so and everyone said yes. everything was going great untill last Fri. everything just stopped. and now its worse. he hardly says hi to me anymore or talks to me. its just different. i dont get whats changed though. he walked with me to class today but it didnt seem special like the other days we have. its different and i dont know why. i wanna get over him now but i cant. i keep thinkin about him. i need to know why he stopped all of what he was doing. hed say hi 2 me, say my name alot, mess with me, walk to class with me (when it felt special,) started conversations with me and stuff like that but friday it just all stopped and in spanish class that day we kinda got into a argument and my teacher told us to stop and he said me and (my name) are good friends. were just messin around. but it just doesnt make any sense. how could all this change in one day. i need answers becuz i dont know what is
2006-12-04 12:05:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he messed with me today alittle bit this morning when i was down with him at his locker and today we had art and usually in that class hell say my name all the time and he didnt do anything or said anything. i know it sounds stupid but im real upset over this. i like him alot and i mean alot alot but not as much anymore becuz i feel he doesnt fell the same way bck anymore. all of my friends say they still think he likes me but i cant get myself to believe them. we were also staring in class at eachother but i was mostly staring at him or i would see hims staring at me a little.
2006-12-04 12:06:05 · update #1
honestly, you are lusting after this guy and this guy does not feel the same way about you! i mean think about it: if he actually liked you he would of showed some interest like maybe take you out to lunch and such and he would of acted more mature than he is acting as of right now. just focus on school, hanging out with your friends and doing what you normally do minus thinking about him...go shopping, to the movies, bowling, playing pool, or whatever else you like to do...you need somebody who can actually treat you nice and not play games with you nor act childish like this guy! and if all he wants is good friends so be it! maybe there is a reason that you two do not get along or mesh together! guys will act nice one minute and rude the next but it is the actions that speak louder than words when it comes to knowing what kind of a person he is! this guy seems to be more centered about himself than to care about anyone and if he treated you like that he meant that he likes you just as a friend and nothing more and he is interested in someone else! why dont you stop wasting your time thinking about him and enjoy life and the time you have right now because you never know what will hapen the next day ! stop worrying about this guy and worry about yourself since if you dont take care of yourself no one will! you need to move on and forget what happened!
2006-12-04 13:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could have strong feelings for you but don't know how to act upon them. He's probably nervous or maybe he's giving his priorities a second look. He probably doesn't want to rush into anything because the relationship you have now as friends can be ruin when you two become a couple just take it slow and don't always think that you need a boyfriend now. You can still be attracted to them without going out. Just keep your head up girl! He'll come around and just don't worry so much on that one friday. Life is full of surprises just take it as it comes.
2006-12-04 12:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you maybe getting a little out of control about this guy. Try not stewing over this boy so much. He may have had a bad day. Just calm down and don't freak out because he didn't talk to you as much as you wanted. If it is suppose to work out, it will. Making your self sick because this guy didn't say your name isn't very healthy. Or just ask him if something is wrong. Communication is really a big asset.
2006-12-04 12:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by LittleMiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he's at all serious about you, but you are about him.
Try this: back off, don't call, don't text, don't even speak to him if you see him except for a breezy "Oh, hi. didn't see you there"
After a week or two he will be putty in your hands and you can chalk one up to feminine ways winning again.
Boys hate to be ignored, and generally they always want what they believe they can't have. be cool, be elusive, you'll get him in the end.
2006-12-04 12:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by evil_nykki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you ask me I think that something happened to him. He's depressed or sad. You should be a little sensitive to him. Maybe something happened to someone in his family. If you really care about him, you would ask him if he's feeling okay, or if something happened to him recently. Remember, if you really care about him and don't wanna risk losing him, you should use kind gentle words. Don't be too harsh. If you want my opinion, I'd say that he is really depressed to make the girl he really cares about feel the way he did to you.
2006-12-04 12:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Ricky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be that the guy doesn't like you anymore.. it might just be that the guy likes you SOO much that he's shy to be around you. He might be worried about messing up in front of you. I get shy when I'm near the kid I'm obsessed with. Hope I helped :-)
Sincerely,
needanswersnow06
2006-12-04 12:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by ☼§♫STar_ShINe♫§☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm.....I feel ur pain! Guys can be sssooo confusing....maybe he's just havin a off day...let him be and don't stress....Maybe everything will be back to normal b4 u kno it...it not then ask him why he stopped talking to u.....I kno that may sound hard but just try it...it may put ur worried heart at rest....
Good Luck!
If u need anymore help e-mail me at converse_babe_2006@yahoo.com
2006-12-04 12:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok//here we go..now listen realy well..usualy guys at his age they r tryin to approach a grl and when they succed it they will leave or ignore her so they can show to their friends they are tough! let me give u one advice! ignore him also an much more, stop starin at him even if it hurts and u will c whats gonna happen..he will start comin to you again..oh,if there is another guy..handsome that u r talkin to then talk to him more and let him see that so u can shake him a little.. men doesnt stay with a girl that shows that she depents on them they need to be afraid a little that the can lose u anytime...hope i helped..take care..if u need anythin else m mail is smirnof_nites@hotmail.com ciao!
2006-12-04 12:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your description was WAY too long. Anyways, i think he still has feelings for you. Maybe you should open up yourself more, talk to him, tell him how much you like him. Sometimes you just miss the best moments of your life and you just don't realize it.
2006-12-04 12:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by nicokyu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well... the only mature and right thing to do is talk to him! he is a person you know, it is possible. That way you won't have to second guess yourself
2006-12-04 12:09:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋