my ex and i hooked up last wednesday...we broke up like 4 yrs ago and dated for 3 yrs..anyway...i heard from him on thursday and havent heard from him since...so i texted him. i said whats going on with u and should i just act like wed never happened like u are...today, i accidently sent a work email to him instead of someone to my actual work (working in new work email) and he replied. he said wrong (name) will write you later...thoughts?! i just dont know what he is thinking!!!!! whats going on?!?! serious thoughts only!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-04 11:48:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he used you ? Does it sound like the person he is ?
2006-12-04 11:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him be. You obviously broke up for a reason and that reason is not going to change. Just enjoy the fact that you had some comfortable hook-up sex. Quit emailing and texting him It will scare him off!
2006-12-04 19:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best time to leave the ex alone is right after you broke up. But, if you had a fling and it made things weird, you should probably just pretend it never happened and avoid him so it doesn't happen again.
2006-12-04 19:51:22 · answer #3 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something that's probably not going to amount to anything. If he was willing to work something out seriously with you again he wouldn't have blown you off. BUT never know, things may have a way of working out. So good luck.
2006-12-04 19:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Jason E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of went thugh the on again off again thing with my ex. it was a mess and neither of us were really happy. jsut leave it alone. i doesn't sound like he wants a serious relationship with you anymore. just leave, trust me you will be happier in the long run.
2006-12-04 19:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a casual diversion for him... And now you're being pathetic, and won't leave him alone. If he's not contacting you - he is not that interested. Find someone else, you're getting too involved in this.
2006-12-04 19:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl sounds like he just wanted to get him kicks and wanted you to do it. Guys can be like that they want you one minute then after they get what they want they act like it never even happened. Sad but true.
2006-12-04 19:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by K@t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is interested, he will seek you out and let you know it. You have done plenty. If you walk away from this experience with nothing more than your pride. Let him make the next move.
2006-12-04 19:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by sassy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is a ex perhaps he should stay an ex.
2006-12-04 19:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never get at goal if are ordinary.This can be the goal?The carnal desire?
2006-12-04 19:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋