What should I do about this girl?
Ok here's what happened, i went to a party friday night and me and my friends were just acting stupid and making things up about ourselves like fake names, and i was just looking for a girl to hook up with, but then we went up to these girls room and i started talking to this girl who was just there watching tv, and i realized i really liked her, but i had already lied to her alot like what dorm i lived in and where i was from and other things, cuz i wasnt expecting to find a girl i really liked, and she didn't hook up with me, she just like fell asleep on me with my arm around her, well i can't stop thinking about her and i've got her number, but how am i gonna come out of this
i have to call her also because my friend left his jacket in her room
Ok so up there is what happened a few weeks ago
So I called her once to get the jacket back last Sunday night (a little more than a week later)....
2006-12-04 11:44:39 · 9 answers · asked by johnstockton 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and she was said she was going to be busy most of the week so I should call her this weekendbut thats basically how the conversation went since I still wasn't sure what to say, and I was to pusy to say anything else, well at 11 pm on Sunday night I hadn't caled her ( a few hours ago), so she finally calls me and is like the jackets in some kids room because it would be easier for me cuz its in the dorm i live in(the fake dorm I live in, which I can't get in since I dont live there) and she gave me his number so I can call him and get it I think she likes me but also this time I didn't even say anything to her except like ok so now I don't even have an excuse to call her..and I think she liked me before like when I called she was really happy but then I didn't talk about anything that time or this time so Im really messing this up but I'm still wondering if anybody has advice on what to do
2006-12-04 11:44:44 · update #1
also shes kind of a shy and studious girl if this changes anything
2006-12-04 11:44:52 · update #2
okay, this is what you need to do. CAll the girl up and say " hey, I was a little disapointed you took the jacket over to such and such dorm b/c now i don't have a reason to call you except for one and i feel like a complete and total *** but if you have a minute i would love to confess to you." then listent o what she says and say this " okay, well, i went to that party to have a good time with my buddies and i wasn't planning on making any new friends, but anyway I did meet you and would like to hang out with you more and get to know you. But, goodness, I am such an ***, but i lied ot you about my name and where i stay. my name is such and such and i live at such and such and if you could forgive me for the deseption i would really like to take you out sometime and let you tell me what an *** i am. " and say it very charming like
2006-12-04 11:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should just fess up and come clean. lying is no way to start a new relationship. you should just be like "hey my name is actually --------, and i don't like in dorm ---------- i live in -------. sorry that i lied. my friends and i were just messing around the other night and i really didn't expect to find anyone i liked. but then i saw you and spent the rest of the night with you, and thing sorta changed."
you should just tell her exactly what happened, and if she's a good girl she will understand.
i mean really, the worst thing that could happen is she stops talking to you. but you never really had a relationship in the first place so it can't be that bad.
2006-12-04 19:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by brunettebelle10 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry just play it cool :P
Talk with her by like goin 2 the movies or hanging out.....
And then explain what you guy were doing (BUT DONT MESS UP!!!!!!!!!! SHE'LL HATE YOU!!)
=)
good luck!
You sound like a really sweet guy askin about her and stuff on here
=)
Hope you get your girl and I hope I was some help!
2006-12-04 19:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up and call her and tell her that you really enjoyed yourself.... that you didn't expect to like her thats why you lied to her!! it will be hard but its the best thing to do... if she says no.. who cares?? don't tell anyone you're going to call her and no one will know you got rejected!! but i doubt you will, u sound like a nice enough person!! luck
2006-12-04 19:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is it with people like you that feel compelled to write a novel instead of ask a question?
2006-12-04 19:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find out her name and call her !
2006-12-04 19:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by Back Off Jack ! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her you were being drunk and dumb and thought it would be funny, then see what happens
2006-12-04 19:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by rufnready 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry - this question is too ****** long for me
2006-12-04 19:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
im a horse, leave me alone!!!
2006-12-04 19:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋