ok... for like my whole life whenever i like a guy i am too scared to make a move...even when they act like they like me i even kinda reject them, but just cuz im always nervous! but this year i decided i was actually gonna make a move on one of the guys i like, and see what happens....but the problem is i can't pick which one!! i like 3 guys right now... and all in different ways... can i please have your guys' opinions?
Boy #1:
-in my grade
-super hot
-flirts with me SOOOO much
-really nice, and sweet when i'm upset...
-...but has made me cry in the past (not recently tho)
-talks to me a lot
-BUT... has a reputation as a HUGE flirt. my friends think he actually likes me, but i'm worried i may be just another fling to him.
Boy #2:
-2 grades below me
-i just recently met him, so i don't know a TON about him
-shy, and super duper nice
-really friendly, and says hi to me whenever i see him around
-AMAZING bod
-he's in bball, and i manage his team, so i could get to know him well
2006-12-04 11:39:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boy #3
-3 grades below me (please don't write this one off just because of age. he is more mature than 75% of the guys in my grade!!)
-unbelievably hot
-a *sweetie* pie
-ALWAYS talks to me like i am just the most wonderful person ever... i've known him for 3 yrs and he's NEVER said a negative thing to me
-out of the 3 guys he is always the one to notice when somethings wrong and everything
-99% sure he likes me, too
-but still... i feel like the age difference will be weird to other people who don't get that i care about who he is as a PERSON, not his age.
PLEASE--- if you've come to criticize, pass!! i just want advice on who to pick, and why, and stuff like that!! thank you all soo much!! <3
2006-12-04 11:40:46 · update #1
If your going to make a move, I think you should make this decision carefully, because you don't want to regret it later. You said you have three boys in mind that you have in mind...
Boy one regardless of age, doesn't seem like a good choice, he's made you cry and your not even an item?? And as a reputation of a flirt, is this something your prepared for in the end?
Boy two... he might be hot... but you don't know him very well and this puts you in a bad position. Because as much as you don't know about him... there is tons you should know before you decide to make a move.
Boy three...Let me ask you this... if something go wrong, if something goes right... it sounds like he is the one you would go to right?? and it sounds to me that you are that person for him. If you really want to make a move then this is the move... don't do it because your agraid of what other people think.... do it because of what you want and think.
Either way Good luck!
2006-12-04 11:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Elly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy #3
-3 grades below me (please don't write this one off just because of age. he is more mature than 75% of the guys in my grade!!)
-unbelievably hot
-a *sweetie* pie
-ALWAYS talks to me like i am just the most wonderful person ever... i've known him for 3 yrs and he's NEVER said a negative thing to me
-out of the 3 guys he is always the one to notice when somethings wrong and everything
-99% sure he likes me, too
-but still... i feel like the age difference will be weird to other people who don't get that i care about who he is as a PERSON, not his age
sonds so sweet
2006-12-04 19:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Cathrine L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are in grade school you should be enjoying the company of many boys and learning how to get along with all types.
Once you mature a little more you will not have to ask questions like this.
2006-12-04 19:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would this make you seem like a ho, or something? You need to change your attitude.
My mom advised me to never be with just one boy until I finished getting my education and I have followed her advice. I have 4 lovers at present, and also date but do not have physical intimacy with 2 other guys.
"Play the field." as my mom says. It's great, and as long as your guys know it it avoids problems (like those of 95% of the girls in this category write about).
2006-12-04 19:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably my top choice would be number 3. He just sounds really nice and sweet. Then would be number 2. But number 1 sounds like he just likes to flirt with you and not much else. Good luck trying to choose.
2006-12-04 19:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guy 1 or 3 (I would go with 3 myself i like nice boys)
2006-12-04 19:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by Sabby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee. It sounds to me like you already made up your own mind. You just want someone to tell you that it is okay to date someone way younger than you. It depends on the difference. if you are hitting 18 and he is like 14, I'd say no. But if he is like 15 and you are early 17 well you are both minors. Your best bet...ask your parents. I know it sounds weird but ask them about the age difference and value their opinions. They know the best answers.
2006-12-04 19:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by purrfectica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking #3. Age really is not all that important. And you seem to like this guy the most. Or at least are the most complimentary.
2006-12-04 19:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the 1st one sounds cool not 2 but looks like you kinda already made up your mind pick 3 sounds like you really like him the most to begin with go for it
2006-12-04 19:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with 3 becuase you defended him even though he is younger and that means deep down you like him the most. and you always have 2 fallout options if he says no. but I'm sure he likes you.
2006-12-04 19:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋