my bf broke up with me and i relly did not stop liking him and now
he has a gf and i want him back!over the summer i told him i still liked him!but other than that we havent relly ben able to talk because he is a grade ahead of me!we went out for at least 11 months is there something wrong with me ?what should i do?
irelly like him !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-04 11:34:19 · 8 answers · asked by i luv God 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't sound like he's at all serious about you, but you are about him.
Try this: back off, don't call, don't text, don't even speak to him if you see him except for a breezy "Oh, hi. didn't see you there"
After a week or two he will be putty in your hands and you can chalk one up to feminine ways winning again.
Boys hate to be ignored, and generally they always want what they believe they can't have. be cool, be elusive, you'll get him in the end.
2006-12-04 11:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by evil_nykki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by the sound of your question, I can tell you're pretty young. I'm going to give you an answer from a male point of view... if this is just too obvious then I apologize. The guy broke up with you... why? There must have been a reason, maybe you just don't know or he didn't tell you. Maybe he was fooling around on you and found someone he liked more. These things happen. If I were you I'd move on and forget about it. If this guy really thinks you're anything special then he''ll do something about it. If not, find a guy who does... why wait around for one person when you never know if someone better could be around the corner, but you never noticed them because you were too focused on your ex? Trust me, let it go and things will work out, they always do.
God Bless
Sean
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2006-12-04 19:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by english4bw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awh i know how you feel. and there really isnt anything wrong with you. but i really dont know how to answer this question because thats probaly what i would ask too. you said he broke up with you, so you should find out what was wrong in ur relationship and see if u can get a 2nd chance and try to fix that problem or something. haha sorry i really dont know im not good at giving relationship advice. i try tho XD well good luck Lol
2006-12-04 19:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each day you waste on something that will never be again is a day gone to getting back to real life.
The longer you stay in the denial closet, the worse your life will get.
Do not allow yourself to waste more than a couple of min a day on the old bf, then rapidly move on to life in the new direction.
2006-12-04 19:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with you try to look for another guy and be more open there are betters! i think you just need to get over him and move on because i dont think he'll come bak..there are better! may not seem like it but there are!
2006-12-04 19:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if you really like him show him how you feel about him, make him believe you still like him. if you think he has moved on then catch him and talk to him and ask him if he still has feelings for you and if he says no then move on
2006-12-04 19:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by trustpuppypink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems he has moved on you should too! you can definitly find another guy that will take better care of you... i bet his reason for breaking up with you wasnt a good reason at all... so you should find someone better
2006-12-04 19:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it; God with give you direction and comfort you dear!!
2006-12-04 19:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by Princess_n_Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋