i'm 34 5ft6 140 green eye brown hair working woman living on me own and i worry about me being not good looking sometimes and about being pretty other times. when i take photos with friends i cringe at how unphotogenic i am. when i go to work i feel like im approachable and beautiful and i worry about men hitting on me and women being jealous. how do i stop worrying about how ugly and pretty i am?
2006-12-04 11:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by beautifuldizzazster 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
how do i not care what others think when that is all i thinking about?
2006-12-04 11:41:16 · update #1
Just be yourself. I am not fantastic looking at all, but I do not let it bring me down. If people do not like me for who I am, then they can rack off. I do not care about what others think about me.
2006-12-04 11:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by ironchain15 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you are pretty. I don't even know you and I can say that. I know you've heard this before but you are pretty to someone, the question is just whether you can think of yourself that way. You shouldn't worry about other people being jealous. If they are that's your problem. I can tell you from experience though, it's not fun to be constantly hit on either. It really brings down your self esteem. People tell you that it should bring it up but it doesn't because you begin to think that people want you only for your looks. If someone wants you for your looks that's fine, but they should be an add on, not the only reason. Good luck.
2006-12-04 19:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by starr_wix_wickens_aka.starreyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to meet some people with REAL problems just trying to function and stay alive. Just be a nice person, be yourself, you can take pride in your appearance without being vain, that is expected of women anyways.
2006-12-04 19:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's to worry about? Sounds to me like the only problem you have is good looks, and a lot of women want that problem.
2006-12-04 19:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by relaxed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sublimate that thoughts, keep yourself busy by setting goals throughout the day, before you knew it, the day is over without thinking of your appearance.
By the way, there are people who looks not so good in pictures but in person, they are drop dead gorgeous.
2006-12-04 19:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by nurse_corrupted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself, everyone has their own problems that probably bother them just as much. just try not to think about them.
2006-12-04 19:47:00 · answer #6 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might be helpful
http://sensitive-psychoworld.blogspot.com/
2006-12-04 20:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by LIz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋