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when u live together then fine, but my friend see's her bf every single night! is that not so boring and unhealthy? i think its sad u have to see someone everyday and not have any "me time" they are so needy of one another.she doesnt allow him out or to have boys nights and vice versa!! Is everyone like them, or am i the different one??

2006-12-04 11:30:20 · 12 answers · asked by clare 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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i think that its extremely important that you have time for yourself in a relationship. i used to be like that with my previous relationships where we just spent everyday together and i found myself to feel suffocated and even bored. i just wanted out like i couldnt stand to be around them anymore and when i did want to go out without him or be by myself they took it hard. i think that thats one of the main reasons that relationships end early because you want to spend all ur time with that person and dont realize the efffect uf having on the long run. hope i helped!

2006-12-04 11:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Well in answer to this, I have never experienced it. But yes it does seem to be too much time together. Heck I was lucky if I saw the person a couple times a month or once every few months. I know, I am at the opposite end of the question. I think twice a week would be nice!

2006-12-04 19:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0 1

To be honest, yes it is unhealthy to see each other every single day.

Both the guy and girl have to have their own lives. Be independent. Socialize with others. Have a break.

Otherwise what tends to happen is the relationship gets way ahead of itself and just ends faster. They should keep something to look forward to and keep up on hobbies and other friends and family or in the future they will regret "losing" that part of themselves.

2006-12-04 19:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

i think that is just a little too clingy if i am not living with my bf and am new in the relationship i like to see him a few times a week but not everyday all day forget that i need me time too and if he dont understand that and he needs to be that desperate and clingy too me then he is really not worth my time i mean really what woman doesnt want a little me time here and there right i totally agree with where you are coming from i mean i am seeing someone that i really like right now and i dont see him everyday maybe your friend and her bf dont have a very trusting relationship if they are not allowed to be out with other friends and that aint fair to either of them but to each their own i guess

2006-12-04 19:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0 1

I absolutely think its wrong to not have me time. I think a chance to be alone for a while can strengthen a relationship. If you constantly with each other it makes it difficult to develop friendly relationships or maintain old friendships. Of course this is a lesson they need to learn on their own.

2006-12-04 19:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by christina r 2 · 0 1

as long as your not together 24/7 , that is very unhealthy on a relationship , it never works out , working with each other , then living with each other

2006-12-04 19:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I do not think so
but then I love to be with people all the time
and someone I love I would and do not get tired of at all

but that's just me

2006-12-06 17:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no thats too much you need space too much tiem together can lead to a faster break up..get sick of eachother fast also seems stlkerish and if you spend all your time with your boyfriend you lose your real firneds then you guys break up and u got no friends definatly agree with you!

2006-12-04 19:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by ash 2 · 0 1

I do agree that is very unhealthy,everyone needs time for themselves.

2006-12-07 04:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by cancel 3 · 0 0

I think it's good to get away and not do the day to day thing I need space

2006-12-06 14:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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