There is this girl that i like and would like to ask out but we are starting to become friends and I am worried it would ruin the friendship if she siad no. What should i do?
2006-12-04 11:29:39 · 13 answers · asked by Bklugs. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her if she wants to go bowling with friends or ask her if she wants to go with you to a movie or a mall and have some other friends go with you like a group date.
Tell her a bunch of friends are goin and you would really like it if she came along.
And from there tell her that you really like her and then go from there.
2006-12-04 11:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by jake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is your first problem, negativity. That is a big no-no! Men who are the most attractive to women are the ones who seem secure even if they are not. When they have confidence they look appealing. Don't worry, the worst thing that she could do is say no, big deal. Why don't you first take advantage of your friendship with her and see if she is even your type? Why rush things? You might find out that she is not even what you are looking for and then you have waisted time with worry.
2006-12-04 19:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't confess, you'll regret later on for not having confessed. You can write her a love letter if you're too embarassed (this is the oldest way of confessing) or you can ask her straight out. If she rejects you, just ask her if you could be friends. Oh, and whatever you do, NEVER ask someone else to tell a girl that you like her. Maybe before you confess, you could get to knoe her better, and let her know u better.
2006-12-04 19:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bubble T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to do something with you. It's best to keep it simple because if you say more than you need too then it looks like you're nervous (which you will be but you don't want her to know that).
Don't take her anywhere romantic. Take her somewhere fun. You should both be forgetting you're on a date and think about how much fun you're having.
2006-12-04 19:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by bmusementpark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. It sounds like the friendship is already in peril because you like her as more than a friend. Take your chances and try to accept it and let it go if she says no.
2006-12-04 19:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never hold your feelings in. You'll always wonder what if... That's not good. You should always express yourself, even if you are scared, because she could say she likes you, too. You can't be afraid of rejection at any point in your life. This leads you to a whole lot of nowhere and nothing!! GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-04 19:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by ~J♥L♥L~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask her out if your worried about friendship. Be a MAN grab your nuts tell the woman what your intentions are.
2006-12-04 19:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if this works but i got it from the tv. go up to a girl and comment her then just leave she might come back and give you her number maybe... then on the phone ask her out
2006-12-04 19:34:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take is slow for maybe a month or two, then try and go for it, maybe something light like a small movie and dinner.
2006-12-04 19:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u love being friends with her, and u like her and u were wongering if she would go out with u, if she says yess....good for u, if she says no, say ok, i was just wondering, but please dont let this ruin iur friendship! good luck <3
2006-12-04 19:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋