i DONT REALLY KNOW HOW TO EXPLAIN THIS BUT IMA TRY MY BEST!! YESTERDAY MY BOYFRIEND CALL ME AND TOLD ME THAT HE NEED IT TO TALK TO ME VERY URGENT AND SO HE CAME TO MY HOUSE TO TALK. AND WHAT HAPPEN WAS THAT HE TOLD ME THAT IF IT WAS TRUE I HAD KISS HIS BEST FRIEND. AND SO I WAS "NO" ADN I ASK HIM WHY U SAYING THAT AND HE TOLD ME THAT BECAUSE HIS FRIENDS TOLD HIM. AND WAS JUST LIKE DAMN WHY THEY LYING! AND SO HE JSUT LEFT I CALL HIM AT HIS PHONE AND HE WAS TELLING ME THAT HE DIDNT WANT TO BE WITH ME NO MORE, THAT I WAS AN EASY GIRL, THAT I COULD GO WITH THE OTHER GUY, THAT HE DIDNT WANT TO EVEN SEE ME!! AND SO I TOLD HIM I DONT CARE IF U DONT WANT TO SEE ME!! BUT I REALLY NEED TO TALK TO YOU !!! AND U CANT LEAVE ME BECAUSE IM PREGNANT!! AND HE STOOD IN SHOCK I TOLD HIM TO COME TO MY HOUSE TO TALK ABOUT IT BUT HE REFUSE!! HE TOLD ME THAT TODAY HES GONNA *** BUT IDONT KNOW IF HES GONNA COME I MEAN I CALLED HIM BUT HE DOSENT ANSWERS, WHAT SHOULD I DO!! IS HE GONNA LEAVE ME?
2006-12-04 11:13:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*** may mean something bad.
Avoid him and lay low for a while.
It could mean the difference between life and death, in some cases.
However, he is jumping to conclusions, you sound like the right side of things.
Stay calm and don't panic.
2006-12-04 11:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hunny,
well if u know u didnt kiss hes friend then sit down with him and try talking to him, telling him u didnt kiss him, and that u would never do that especially with hes friend, now as far as if u did and he does leave u sweety, and u are pregnant, hunny no man has to stay in the relationship cause a girl is pregnant, as far as talkin to him and telling him u are pregnant thats k, just let him know he was involved n he needs to take responsiblity for hes child not you,,
2006-12-04 19:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by christy27@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, no man has to stay with u because u r pregnant. a child can have a happy upbringing if the parents arent together. Excuse me for being synical, but are u even pregnant? or is it just said to kkep him? At the end of the day, he broke up with u because he thinks u cheated. if u didnt its his loss. he might realise that, but dont ever beg any man to to come back.
2006-12-04 19:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by clare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes jumping to conclusions, so just stay calm and chill.
he'll come around, he's just confused.
give him a week or so and try him again. if he still doesnt believe you tell him that you would never cheat on him, and that you love him. and take him with you to the doctors, so you both can have a check up with the baby.
congadulations with the child...... i dink
much hope with your boy...........:)
2006-12-04 19:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are pregnant, just make it clear to him that he now has responsibilities and it would be better to come together and talk about it rather than thru a lawyer.
2006-12-04 19:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you really need 2 learn wat birth control is. and if he doesn't come over, then you need 2 go 2 him. it doesn't matter when, just go, even if he doesn't know it. its his child 2 so he has to face the same consequences as you do because its not all ur fault, its his problem 2!!
2006-12-04 19:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Cutieful &. {♥} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋