This girl always plays with her hair around me and there is a 98 percent chance she likes me. The problem is I don't like her. I don't want to tell her off without making sure she likes me first or else it will sound stupid. So I want to ask her friend who I am friends too. The thing the is a strong possibility she likes me too. So should I talk to her in private and ask her if her friend likes me? Or is that not such a good idea, since she might like me too and she might get jelouse? I know this was a long question, but I would appreciate the help.
2006-12-04 11:11:17 · 35 answers · asked by SlamC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm... if you don't like either..just don't trouble yourself with either. You don't wanna hurt their feelings. You don't HAVE to tell either of them off. Ima girl...and I don't like guys telling me they don't like me... especially when I'm TOTALLY obsessing over that particular one. If you have any more questions about girlz...I'm ur gal!... Just e-mail me at visbalmotica@hotmail.com! Hope I helped! :-)
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2006-12-04 11:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by ☼§♫STar_ShINe♫§☼ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone completely unless girl #1 says something to you or you will look like a fool if it's not true and you are just reading her wrong. Asking someone to find out simply so you can tell her off is not nice or necessary. Let it go.
As for girl #2, leave her out of it - especially if you think she may like you too.
What makes you so special that two girls like you so much? You must have some good qualities about you. So use those qualities if you don't like either girl and just be a friend, don't send mixed signals and get on with your life.
Best of luck with the situation.
2006-12-04 11:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Grá 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so cocky. Why would they want such a rude, unintelligent guy. You can't even spell. Congratulations, you can go on the internet and make yourself out to be a ladyies' man. Chances are that you're not. Sorry if the truth hurts, but don't hate. Give me the best answer... since I'm the only one with balls enough to tell you the truth.
2006-12-04 11:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by d12.emin3m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight :you want to ask a girl that you like and who you think likes you; if her friend that you are not even remotely interested in; likes you? so you can TELL HER OFF?Who do you think you are Adonnis?Lets be honest what you really want is the two of them to be interested in you so they can fight over you and in turn massage your ego.I'm guessing your about 12 and here's some advice for you don't try to manipulate these girls grow up because if they are really good friends this little plot will turn back on you and you'll look like the fool not the girl who likes you. Hope this helped best of luck in future dating.
2006-12-04 12:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by answer me this..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell anyone off. That's just mean. It is flattering to have someone "like" you. It is not a right you have. If you choose to be mean and tell that girl or any girl off for that matter you'll get a reputation and you'll find yourself with NO girls being interested in you. Remember the golden rule ... Do unto others as you'd have done to you. I pray you make the right decision and just not say anything at all. You'll show your maturity and respect for yourself and others. Have a pleasant evening.
2006-12-04 11:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I wouldn't say anything to the first girl who likes you since everybody likes someone at one point in their life and she will probably feel uncomfortable around you. If you still feel that you should tell her your not interested, then I would do it in private, and to her face, I know it might be hard, but it will show her that you are nice and sensitive kind-of guy.
~GoodLuck!~
2006-12-04 11:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really need to tell her off or ask her friend about her if you don't like her. Just make sure you are not leading her on. You could even tell her about other girls who you are interested in. She should take the hint.
2006-12-04 11:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay this is what you do, start talking about another girl someone who you think is pretty and not one of them, talk about other girls a lot and talk about what you like in a girl and what your dream girl would look like, and describe the opposite of these girls, tell them that you have been talking to this girl online and that you are getting really close to her. This way they will think you are interested in someone else and maybe already taken, so they will just give up trying.
2006-12-04 11:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahaha a couple of girls like you just get over it. For all you know a girl you like might end up liking you because of these girls so don't worry about it. Actually to be honest when one girl likes a guy more usually do so if you tell off this one girl you will probly end up hurting more girls than just her, and the other girls won't like it its kinda shallow. If you don't like her than just don't like her you don't have to be mean or anything.
2006-12-04 11:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by cndrll_1613 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should either find another friend who you both know, or even better, go ahead and ask her friend, and if you dont like her, you might drop in the hint that your not into dating anyone right now, so that she gets that u aren't into her, or anyone, and thats good because then you get both of them to leave u alone! good luck! <3
2006-12-04 11:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋