i was dating this guy for a month now, and one day we are perfect, nothing is wrong. and the next, he changed for completely. He doesn't kiss me, hold my hand, hug me, bother me. Then we split up, and he didnt tell me why. But i found out it was because i didnt give him enough love.
I have two choices, ask him why he broke up with me (pretending i don't know) and then talk to him about it and try to solve it out.
or
just move on and ignore it all.
im really confused about this, because im scared that he tells me that it just won't work out.
should i take the chance and talk to him?
please answer me anyone!
thank u!
2006-12-04 10:57:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he ignored you.... you should just ignore him too.
You don't need someone like that.
Someone who won't bother communicating with you.
He never really liked you to begin with apparently.
You're better than that.
Just leave it alone.
He doesn't deserve you.
Let him know that it doesn't bother you and you're better off without him.
Because you ARE.
2006-12-04 11:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm effective it began out super, yet this guy can no longer take issues to the subsequent point and he would not understand what you have been saying in case you probably did discuss with him approximately your emotions. the only element left to do is shop the different women around the workplace risk-free from the comparable errors. His movements of flirting in front of you assert no longer something extra effective than, "bypass away." by employing the way, comfortable-feely flirting isn't a thank you to get a severe companion, shy flirting is.
2016-10-14 00:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by schwalm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.people play head games all the time,just ignore him and see if he comes to you.relationships are funny,,,one minute things are good,next time what the ----.men and women all play head games,,which I don't find funny. just go with your gut feeling and maybe it will work out. (1 MONTH REALLY IS NOT ENOUGH TIME TO GET TO KNOW SOMEONE IN MY BOOK)
Relationships are hard work,if your dating or married,it has to be 100% ON BOTH SIDES. Hope all works out for you
2006-12-04 11:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by hl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could certainly try to talk with him but if he broke up with you, you are really not in the drivers seat here. Give it a try but don't be surprised if he just isn't interested in trying to work it out...good luck
2006-12-04 11:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would talk to him about it. Tell him you want to know what it was that caused the break up. Be prepared to move on anyways.
2006-12-04 11:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by love2utam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you really aren't together if you've only dated a month. you sound young. tomorrow you will probably see someone new that you are in "love" with.
2006-12-04 11:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by keepingitgoing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talking may be the best thing to do, but dont if he tries to avoid the topic. however, he may have used you as a fling, so you should probaly move on.
2006-12-04 11:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why bother? He's going to tell you that you're insecure, annoying and shallow.
2006-12-04 11:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by alpha_trolls 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is worth a second try, go to the beach or the pool for the discussion - dont wear much - be available.
2006-12-04 11:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is what i call back tracking. this person broke up and didnt want you, you shouldnt go back. maybe he has commitment issues
2006-12-04 11:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋