was so in love and he cheated with some fat assed horseface(sorry couldn't help myself) now he is with someone else and i have gained wait comfort eating to forget him. I have been in a zombie like state and feel like there's no point living. i want him to feel the same pain i feel although i don't think its possible as iam numb with pain.
2006-12-04 10:56:58 · 65 answers · asked by talie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are already heading down the wrong road in your revenge method. First you are eating for comfort -- wrong -- adds the pounds. Second, you have allowed the situation to consume your life to the point you are walking around like a zombie without thought.
The best revenge is to learn from the experience. Learn to like yourself and do things that make you happy. Allow yourself to become your own best friend. You have positive qualities -- discover them and enjoy them. Allow yourself to learn and experience new things.
You won't forget him but you can learn that his behavior is not something you will tolerate in a relationship, nor is it something you will do yourself -- this is a positive quality within you. I am sure there are are many more. Maybe next time you will learn to be more selective in your love interests.
Wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-04 11:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh!!I know it gives a lot of pain a cheating boyfriend....The way you present him makes me imagine him as a useless one...Just forget about him.....for the moment...Control your weight if I have got well the point about your eating too much...There is no certain recipe for revenge...I think every case has its own revenge....A rule though is to find his weak spot and exploit it.I am a revengful one!!!!I can only overcome people completely only If I pay them back.....And I have concluded tht the best way of revenge is putting them out of my world and stop concerning about them.......So press the delete button....I hope you soon stop eating..I'd prefer that you revenged him and not you!!!!Here is a song tht suits your case..(Lush-Ciao)
I've been so happy since I walked away
I never thought that I could feel as great as I do today
'Cause you were nothing but a big mistake
And life is wonderful, now that I'm rid of you
Oh I must've been crazy to have stayed with you
I can't believe I thought I was in love with you
But now the scales have fallen I can really see
And I say go to hell, 'cause thats where you took me
Well, I've felt better since I slammed that door
You always cramped my style, I never noticed before
It's been a non-stop party since I flew the coop
I can't believe I fell for such a loser like you
And is it any wonder that I felt so blue
When I was always having to put up with you
Oh, here we go again, just lay the blame on me
Don't say another word, 'cause sweetheart, you're history
I know that you miss me really, bet you wish that you still had me
You'll never find someone like me but I've got no regrets at all
'Cause I've met this girl and she's so good to me
She's really beautiful, fantastic company
Oh, when I'm with her I realise what love can be
'Cause she's fifty times the person you will ever be
Good luck, mister, do you think I care?
Since you've been gone the offers have been everywhere
I've got a million guys just lining up for me
I've turned a corner, boy, my life is ecstasy
Well, I've been in heaven since I walk away
I never thought that I could feel as great as I do today
'Cause you were nothing but a waste of space
And life is wonderful now that I'm over you
2006-12-04 11:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you are in some serious hurt. However, time heals everything. Stop the binge eating and turn yourself into a goddess. If he comes back around ignore him, it will drive him crazy. If he doesn't come back around then let it be. Karma is real and what goes around comes around. You have to be good to yourself and find a life partner that is going to make you feel good. Your ex is a jerk, he will always be a jerk. And you are better off without him. He is most likely not your soul mate so why sit around crying and feeding your face. Wake up and move on.
My girlfriend in high school cheated on me while I was in boot camp in the Marines. She got pregnant. I was sick to my stomach for about 1-2 weeks. I am now married to an awesome lady. My girlfriend, is now divorced and I am not kidding, she is close to 300 pounds at 5' 5". Good luck whatever you do
2006-12-04 11:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tias 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to get yourself looking hot and desirable. His friends will tell him he's an idiot for leave such a hot looking person. As a side bonus, you'll meet better guys and have fun at the same time.
My advice is to find a work out buddy and eat right. Find a girlfriend that wants to get into shape too. You'll strengthen your friendship, feel better about yourself, and look good in the process.
2006-12-04 11:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by bmusementpark 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Put down the Twinkies and run, don't walk, to the gym and work on working off the few depression pounds that you have put on by self medicating with food. I bet you are a really nice girl - That guy does not deserve you.
Get into shape and you should have no problem finding a guy who is not a looser. Once you look like someone who loves them self you wont have any problems finding someone who reciprocates that love.
Don't worry about revenge - the best revenge would be a physically healthier you!
2006-12-04 11:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by commonsince76 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i think you should find you the best man you can but make sure you don't just pick a man off the street and the worst thing to do is do the same thing the person you are trying to get revenge on did because all you are doing is not being the bigger person so try not to get revenge on him trust me god got something in store for him you can see yo old man couldn't handle you so he went to some weak girl so you find you a man that can handle you
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2006-12-04 11:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Trevyy bby. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated with a "fat as.sed horseface" I think that is punishment enough.
Anyways, the best revenge is to forget about him. I know some guys go crazy if a girl forgets about him really quick.
2006-12-04 10:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I lived with my bf for 5 years and one day he up and broke up with me... My world came falling down around me! I was so upset, stopped eating, gave myself an ulcer... Then a week later he had a new 18 yr old gf (he was 25). I was livid and I wanted to get him back so....... I called up an old friend that he had always had a problem with (the one he was MOST jealous of). I would make sure he heard me talking on the phone to him and we'd giggle and flirt on the phone and all that. Since he lived 1000 miles away I flew out to see him and had my bf's sister take me to the airport. I made every attempt to make sure he suffered and I was always acting like I was so happy and in love with this other guy. But my plan BACKFIRED!!! I USED my friend! He really was in love and I was just playing. On the flight home I cried so hysterically one of the flight attendants had to come sit with me to calm me down. It was horrible I felt like worse that I had the night we broke up. I felt cheap and dirty. After that I decided I was going to make him sorry he left me and I wasn't going to lie to do it. I got a gym membership, kept myself busy with a second job and started focusing on ME! It felt great!
I still don't talk to my "friend" (he doesn't think to highly of me). I know this doesn't really answer your question but I just wanted you to know that sometimes revenge can bite you in the ***. Be careful and I hope you all the best!
2006-12-04 11:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by hoppinalongthelilypads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i have to asK...WAT IS YOUR PROBLEM!!! HE AINT WORTH YOUR TIME! YOUR BETTER THAN THAT!!!! if he cheated on you then obviously he didnt care about so 4get bout him!!!. dont say u cant b/c dat jus means u wont. your a strong independent woman and u dont need someone to complete you. especially not one like him. your betta than that so the best way 4 him to feel your pain is show him that ur fine w/o him. he'll be so heated he'll gain wait!!! LOL!! by asking for help on here i know that ur a good and sensible person so hang with your friends, thank God for your family and the people who DO care about you and let him leave your life. remember bein a zombie is only good for halloween. Cheer up and live life to the fullest. YOU DESERVE YOUR HAPPINESS! And as far as dat otha girl, dont hate her. chances are she dont know wat he's done and if she does shes worse than him. be happy chicky! Merry Christmas!!
p.s. "no man is worth your tears and the one who is, won't make you cry."
2006-12-04 11:11:37 · answer #9 · answered by Minnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 16:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋