I have work @ tis company for over seven years, and I really like it here, however! there is a co-worker, that has been here for five years, and from day one she has been doing childlish things to me, going to the owner telling things like a little kid, but at the same time, she talk to me as if we are the best of firend, you no the kind smile in your face, but looking to see how they mess you up any chance they get. Everyone said not to trust her, and I always ask why? And they just say if you only new, so right there make me unease as to why they are telling me that, but then I get a call from my boss the (Owner) about something that she as said to him about me that not true, and for the life of me I can't unstand what she has aganst me. This has been going on for five years.How can you smile in someone face and stabe them in the back at the same time? I have treid everthing to be nice to her. Until about three week ago when she put my life in damager, because of the work I do. HELP!
2006-12-04 10:56:50 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Diva 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Call the boss and request a meeting with her AND the boss, and tell him you feel you are being harassed.
2006-12-04 11:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by CrankyYankee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two options here. Firstly, organise a formal meeting with your employer and perhaps your Union Representative too (this is important as your life was put in danger, and therefore relates to WorkCover). Explain the situation and point out that you have been working at the organisation logner than the other employee and that you have tollerated the abuse long enough, and it is now time for your employer to take action. If the situation is not resolved, your second option (and your only option as i see it) is to leave your job. It is not worth placing yourself in harms way. Good Luck
2006-12-04 11:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by luckie_puris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this on a job that I really enjoyed working at a few years ago. I wound up quitting because I got tired of the stuff the coworker was doing. The bosses always believed her, and I don't know why.
I confronted her in a nice manner a few times and even offered to sit with her with the boss to resolve whatever problem she had with me. She denied she had a problem with me and declined the offer.
But she still kept it up. I got so tired of it, I gave a two week notice and left.
2006-12-04 11:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well someone this bad deserves no real compassion...so I suggest using some creative revenge. Check around on the 'net. A good place is the google newsgroup alt.revenge. There will be some creative ways to overwhelm this person with so many problems that she won't have time to bother you.......then sit back and enjoy the fun at her expense (trust me after 5 years she deserves it!...and chances are she has so many enemies by now she won't know who to suspect is doing it).
2006-12-04 11:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by LanceMiller77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your best best is to out and out CONFRONT this person. Just state your case - and tell her that you find it inappropriate and unacceptable for her to continue with these actions, and that you are putting her on notice that the next time this happens you will be talking with human resources, your supervisor or your boss. Be please, but firm. Do not get in a shouting match or threaten - just promise that you are aware of what she does, and you will not allow it to happen anymore. Face her down!
2006-12-04 13:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by Karla R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter to the boss or supervisor and see how it goes from there. If nothing change. You could do few things, ingore her, hang out with the other workers, write a memo to every one about what she did to you that isn't real.
all comes down to your words vs. her words... seem like every one knows how she is.. i guess you have a higher chance of winning =).
2006-12-04 11:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by OrionCheung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 00:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by schwalm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its good to know that you were able to crawl back out of the "damager" with your life intact....
Try telling her that she is a two faced c*nt that you want nothing to do with. Honesty seems to work best for me...
2006-12-04 11:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay )
2006-12-04 10:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by prettyface 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋