In my opinion attractive people are usually the most rude and arrogant and disgusting of anyone else. They know they're beautiful so all they care about is how they look with someone else. Why would someone want to be with a person that will probably get tired of them after a while and move on to the next model? Also being with an attractive person makes you more worried that someone is going to try and steal your 'beauty' away from you.
I know this sounds bitter and yes I am just one of those plain ordinary looking people, but I don't really find attractive people that great. I want someone that I can talk to and laugh at things with and to be comfortable with when I'm being ugly and dumb on my off days. What else could be better than that?
2006-12-04 10:53:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fashion, pop culture, the media, and the recent "skinny" look are STUPID!
I dress in whatever, I don't try to match and my hair is a complete mess just because. I don't try to impress anyone, I don't try to lose weight to the expectations of other becasue it's unhealthy and the skinny look is ugly. Fashion is overrated as far as clothing, sparkles look gay....
Do I make my point? I agree with you completely. I would rather have a decentlooking girlfriend who doesn't care about that wee little pudge and doesn't care about the latest "fashion" than some girl who thinks she has to wash her face 4 times a day and expect me to kiss foot on all fours just because she looks better than a lot of people.
i prefer Gothic-dressed girls, anyways.
2006-12-04 10:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok this is what i have learned. just b/c someone is cute or pretty doesn't mean that is what they are inside (necessarily). i would gladly go for an "ordinary" person as you so call them if it meant i had someone to talk to you and laugh with and enjoy life with. looks aren't everything. pretty people do have big egos (and if you vote a thumbs down on this...then guess you are one of them) and, so i have found out first hand, make very bad companions in life.
2006-12-04 18:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rock ON!!!
I am a ordinary guy and I don't look at what they look on the outside, but much rather look at what is importaint, their personality and their morals... if they h ave that then they will be a loyal though your relationship.
Beauty is a characteristic not a outward description like pretty.
"you must look past the Pretty, and see the Beauty" -David Verellen
If someone is not willing to see past what doesn't matter, and only be satisfied with the way I look then I want nothing to do with them.
2006-12-04 19:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with you they typically are the most arrogant but why don't you ask yourself this: how can one even define real beauty, when all of us are so different looking? it makes me sick that our society is so concerned about peoples outer appearances. what is with the concept of being in or out of someones "league"? i hate that phrase. what we need to do in life is find someone right for us, and our personality, and it could be a million different people, there is no such thing as a soulmate.
2006-12-04 18:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you 100%. People are so jugemental about others and how come we can't just really get to know the person inside? I wish others would do that with me and i would expect that others would want me to do that for them. What really is beauty? Does it really have to be about looks? Well, unlike other people, I think its about your personality and the way you look at life.
Good Question.
2006-12-04 19:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Oh! Gravity. 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
depends on the person, and why they want an attractive person i think that it doesn't matter how they look if they treat you right and make you happy that's good enough for me, some people just want other people to think they are better as they are with someone good looking but if you are interested in them they should already be goodlooking
2006-12-04 18:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm with you on this one. Super good-lookers are usually arrogant, and frequently stupid, because they seldom have to work for anything--it gets handed to them.
My man is average looking-----but he is the funniest person I know, we love each other, and he treats me like a lady-----that's all I ever wanted in a man!
2006-12-04 18:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instinct and evolution makes us want to find the most attractive mates so that our offspring have the best chance of being attractive so that the bloodline will continue.... but don't use that as an excuse :-)
2006-12-04 18:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by Scott M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing could be better than that and it is very true people are always looking for dime pieces give me a penny and im happy we need to stop looking for outter beauty and seek the inner beauty
2006-12-04 18:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree. I really like this guy and some of my friends think he is ugly but to me it doesn't matter. I like him because he makes me laugh and I make him laugh. I feel happy when I am with him. I like him for who he is not for how he looks and that is all that matters. People are just too stupid to see that and that really ticks me off. You shouldn't like someone because they are skinny or tall but for who they are and whats in their hearts.
Hope I helped!!
2006-12-04 18:59:22 · answer #10 · answered by halouno 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋