my boyfriend friend told him that he saw me with some other guy but i had no one with me the problem is that my boyfriend told me that his friend likes me maybe he wants us to break up. I really love my boyfriend but since his friend told him this he doesn't believe me much nor trust me. he has been moving differently. I would never do anything to hurt my boyfriend, I stopped talking to most of my guys friends for him and in not in this world or life as we are together i will never be unfaithful. when you are going to break up with a girl what do you do, I love this boy so much or do he need a little time to think. PLEASE ANSWER
2006-12-04 10:53:12 · 8 answers · asked by lil babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you sound like you are about 16. It appears that you boyfriend does not trust you now since this has happened. Sounds like your boy friend is trying to probe you. Why would he say that he seen you with somone else when that person was not there. Really your boyfriend is the one with the problem, as he knows that his friend likes you. What a friend!. Just because he has been moving differenty, doesn't mean that you have to become a recluse and not talk to your friends. No, he does not need a little time, you two need to talk and explain just how you feel and that you have no concern about his friend that is trying to cut in. I can't believe that your boy friend is jealous of you when he no doubt loves you, and knowes that you love him. Tell his friend to "Kiss-Off .
2006-12-04 11:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all is it a first relationship for one of you guys? it seems like you are really wrapped up on this guy alot thats good but you do not want your boyfriend to know that your way head over heels for him. it might kinda be too late becuase you have already shed blood by gettin rid of your friends. Your boyfriend probably knows that you are crazy about him and is taking advantage of you. you mentioned he is acting diffrently; this could be becuase he is bored of the relationship and wants to feel single again and play the field. Its hard to explain this stuff to people becuase they are in their little fantasy world. But whatever you do, if you and your boyfriend break up do not start talkin to his friend that likes you, that would just be wrong and cruel. If your boyfriend does not believe you that you were with another guy then obviously he does not share the same feelings as you compose of for him..
Jon D
2006-12-04 19:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's so insecure he doesn't trust you so I would say drop him, he'll just make you suffer more, or, he wants to break up with you and is pulling some game to do it. Just drop him .
2006-12-04 18:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 2 scenarios:
1) He wants to break up with you so he is making up excuses
2) He actually believes his friend.
In any case just go up to his face and ask him directly, honesty is the key...
A relationship must be based on trust..
if he doesn't trust you f*** him, he does worth it
2006-12-04 19:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by Goku_cy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down and play a sport, take a good class...get away from all of this. you are going a mile a minute. you sound young. in time, none of this will matter.
2006-12-04 18:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by keepingitgoing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, dump both of them. This is a ridiculous situation, not worth messing with any further.
2006-12-04 18:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he knows the guy likes you yet isn't suspicious, then he's an idiot. love is fickle, so take a stand and tell him exactly where your at. if he can't see it, then dump him. 10 more are ready to take his place.
2006-12-04 18:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break away from both of them....they are too immature. That sort of stuff goes on in grade school.
2006-12-04 18:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋