I'm 27 years old, only child, not raised by my mother, and now she wants to be "mommy".
She's mean, and selfish. I understand that my father has a mind of his own, but the way she treated me growing up, i can only imagine how she did him and I understand why my dad disappeared. He tried when I was little, i do remember that. Now my relationship with him is better than with my mom.
I was raised by other family members while my mom partied and had her boyfriends. My family who raised me, now deceased, paid for everything while my mom collected child support from my dad. I had loans for college b/c eventhough my mom was in a position to help, she refused.
I don't disrespect her, but I don't bother with her too much either.
I could go on, but I guess that's enough background info to get the idea. So my question is...How could a mother be like that? Am I wrong now for not wanting to be bothered with her? How can I make her understand? She thinks I should forvige and forget.
2006-12-04
10:52:55
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Alishia
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My mother had me when she was 28.
2006-12-04
11:44:15 ·
update #1