I already asked this but only got two people to answer me.
I was wondering as i am very attracted to black women-
What has been your experience dating OR being married
to a White/Caucasian/European etc Male.
What has it been like? WHat are the things that suprised you?
Things that you didnt like? Things you did like?
Is it much different than dating a man of your own race?
Anything that we could do better?
Lots of Love
Bijorn
2006-12-04 10:51:00 · 8 answers · asked by Bijorn the Viking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I grew up around white people ALL of my life half of my life I lived in a trailer park the other half was in the suburbs,I always went to mostly whie schools,and I have mostly white friends(and I've been told MANY times that I sound like a white country girl,lol I'm from the midwest and I'm the granddaughter of a farmer,so yeah I'm a country girl)I've dated black men before but I've MOSTLY dated white menNow to answer your questions
I've always had GREAT experiences dating white men,and I'm a pro at it too,my family would be more shocked to see me bring home a black man instead of a white man,and they don't mind,mostly because they've dated outside of their race as well
What's it been like?As I've said it's been awesome
What suprised me the most is that alot of yall are pretty modest and find it hard to believe I'm interested in white men.
Things I didn't like was unlike most black men,when white men get dumped yall tend to get a little(how do I put this delicately,oh well I'll just come out and say it)Whinny and I've had several exs(the white ones)beg me back,and even cry over me!None of the black men I ever dated ever did that and if they did they hid it damn well.
Things I like,NO love about white men,is that yall are more freaky in bed then black men
And yeah to me it is much different then dating a man in my own race,because I'm simply not attracted to black men at all
Anything white men could do better?When you've been dumped,move on gracefully,otherwise can't think of anything else.
2006-12-04 11:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey babe, interesting question. I am with a white guy ( well he is half white) and I find no problems at all. I love him and he treats me the best, I can ask for. There are some culture differences, both good and bad. Every man is different and they all do different things. I have also talked and been with black men and yes they are wonderful, and the person I am with is wonderful but he exceeds to the fullest once again. All I can tell you is be yourself and do not judge the other races. Like every man is different so is every women. there are all types and I can tell you some men can be jerks. But I am so blessed to have who I have.
2006-12-04 10:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by old 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey there, I believe that a man is a man...no matter his race or creed. If you are willing to do your part in the relationship and approach it with honesty, sincerity and a great personality, then you'll be a hit with any woman of any race. As a black woman, I have no problem opening my heart to a man who is genuinely interested in me (and I in him). Although I've never dated a Caucasian man, if one should approach me and I'm feeling him, then I would most definitely date him...and if we are compatible, I'd want to marry him too. I think the only thing that men can do better is to just be honest about what they want in a relationship and always be true to themselves. Good luck Bijorn...and lots of love to you too :o).
2006-12-04 11:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by RoMa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the first I am ever seeing a question like this asked on Yahoo!Answers and frankly I'm surprised, but proud:
Likes: I am not going to generalize but specifically I enjoy how open you guys are to our family and friends......... and from my experience the white guys I have dated I found that you guys are very understanding and I feel more comfort talking to a white man than I do of a man of my own race.... I don't really know why, but it just happens to be this way.....
Also I actually like the challenge of dating with someone of different race, especially white men. The looks and stares, the comments etc. to know that a couple can go through all this and still be productive I find to be extremely important and is a wonderful test of trust. Also to me it's the differences in people that bring me to be interested.....
Things I didn't like: when white men attempt to do this thing called "acting black".... I don't like it when white men mock lower class black men.... I mean, I just like my men to act like themselves and not really to mock... that's a no-no and a turn off..... Just to act like yourselves is good enough for me.... just because I'm black doesn't mean I want you to act like how you think we may act......
Overall though, I love white men! I always have and like I said, I enjoy the challenges an interracial couples can bring.
The differences I would say would be: you guys seem as though you are more interested in getting to know us and not just acting like "you can get a girl"..... you guys are very intriguing yourselves and being with someone of another race is different in obvious ways: in bed for one thing, another background to learn about, new lifestyles etc....
Thank you for asking this question!!!
2006-12-04 11:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by ~*tRiiNa*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there was this interracial couple where I used to live. He was the whitest white you can imagine, very blonde hair, very pale features. She was dark ebony, gorgeous skin tone, wonderful hair. They had the most beautiful babies I have ever seen. the kids had wavy kinky hair that was light brown, blue eyes and dark olive skin. It was taking features from both and making a really striking combo in the children.
2006-12-04 10:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never dated a caucasian fella but would love to
2006-12-04 10:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I personally never dated another race, but I will it doesn't matter what race you. As long as you love that person. We are all God children. I love every race. It really don't matter to me.
2006-12-04 10:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
never dated a caucasian man, wouldnt mind to either.
2006-12-04 10:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by tasha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋