talk with his ex girlfriend and we helped eachother get over it, she said she wanted to meet in real life and stuff and she kinda seems interested but then she also said she thinks she likes her best guy friend and is talking with him kind of a lot. So I was wondering what I should do to try and get her to get to know me more / like me and stuff , is she just confused and needs someone so she is going with the safe way and trying to like her best guy friend or what? help me out please, thank you
2006-12-04 10:47:50 · 14 answers · asked by Jeff C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say take it slowly. I mean, the both of you just got out of relationships, so maybe you're feeling the "brokenheart blues". I would say just try to get to know her....maybe go out to dinner, movie, or something you two would enjoy doing to spend time together. Even if you don't get into a relationship together, you might just gain a friend. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-12-04 10:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by freakykittygoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, your situation is humorous to me because I have been through this crap. Girls are ******* arn't they? THey rip your heart out and until you start treating them badly they won't treat you well. What you need to do is straight up tell her, (in person is best) that you and her have been hurt and it's hard for you to trust girls but you're risking it because you really like talking to her and would like to take her out one night to the movies or something. Don't scare her off by saying some **** like, "oh i like you sooo much" blah blah blah, last thing that girl wants to hear from you is a commitment and that is not what you need right now, for all we know she could be playing you and her friend at the same time. Don't sweat **** an if it don't work out dust your shoulder off my friend there are plenty and i mean plenty of girls in the sea.
2006-12-04 10:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by pokeralchemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actual this female has created her own destiny. She had it stable in the 1st place and he or she went and cheated on you. no person made her try this, she did it out of determination. issues have replaced in view that that 2nd, and as much as you attempt to forgive and ignore you only won't have the ability to. it is so uncomplicated as action and result. She made the alternative and this is her fault that issues are not what they have been anymore. the thought you're sitting around and thinking approximately her emotions in splitting along with her is admirable yet on the comparable time fantastically insane once you think of approximately it. i'm no longer saying which you will desire to bypass out to harm her, that would desire to be infantile and pointless, yet you mustn't experience guilt for a topic that she created. tell her which you have tried yet that it only isn't working. clarify which you won't have the ability to easily recover from what she did. you may forgive yet you won't have the ability to ignore, and it has replaced the two your emotions for her and your skill to have faith her. If she gets emotional then i'm afraid it particularly is a few thing that she has to handle. She isn't your accountability as quickly as you chop up along with her, she has acquaintances and a relatives which would be responsible for her. heavily, human beings would desire to appreciate that movements have outcomes and that 2nd possibilities are high a privelige and not a superb. from time to time you only won't get a 2nd possibility, yet yet human beings proceed to make egocentric judgements regardless. Reaping the effect of undesirable judgements is an element of our discovering curve. Your lady buddy has a super style of discovering to do.
2016-10-14 00:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by schwalm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away from this she is showing TOO many interests in a short time. And I would not like the idea of thinking that you were her "revenge" on him. Let her be and just remain friends until she is more secure in who she is what she wants and does not leave you guessing like this.
2006-12-04 10:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i think she is taking a safe route and she needs a comfort person to lean on. Let it not b u. cause usaully when she does get over it shes also over u. So i f u like her then she will come when she is ready. if u dont like her then goout with someone else. Then again if u dindt then u wouldnt b asking. just pelease ethier emial me or post if u like her or niot.
2006-12-04 10:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by watev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is confused and trying to work things out. It's okay to hang out but be aware that she is dating others along with you. How do you feel about that.
2006-12-04 10:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are the confused one. trying to get back at your ex and her new bf by getting his ex girlfriend is game playing. trust me since they both left their relationships to enter into another one...then their relationship is crap and will soon flush itself out.
2006-12-04 10:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to move far far away, you don't wanna be dating your exes boyfriends ex (if that makes sense), there's plenty of other girls out there.
2006-12-04 10:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her use the other guy as a rebound when she is tired of him she will be ready to date you
2006-12-04 10:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just looking for a rebound. Leave her alone.
2006-12-04 10:51:00 · answer #10 · answered by shyboo91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋