Sorry if I sound out of it, or even slightly immature
Well, I haven't talked to this guy in 5 years, and I finally got to talk to him Sunday night. I was so scared, I had to have my friend call him, and when he picked up the phone, I ran and hid even though he couldn't see me. I LOVE him, he doesn't know that. I really hope he likes me. I have known him for a long time, and he has always been really nice, but I'm nervous to talk to him on the phone, so I need help.
Woud anyone have any suggestions to calm me down a bit? All day, Iv'e been in a daze, and I dont even remember what I did today!
If you could help, that would be aaawwwsssooommme!!!!
Ohhh...he told me not to be nervous when I call, but my brain cant follow his directions. He's a very calm and collected type of person, and he's very truthfull.......oh, sorry, reflecting back...he's just really nice.
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2006-12-04 10:32:55 · 14 answers · asked by Kurama's Lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont live near him, really,and my mom and sister hate him. I ive in a different city, sand my mom and sister, they are all factors, so I cnt hang out wit him. He is also almost 18, an I'm 14, and I told him, and I asked him if he cared, and he wasnt sure. I just dont wont him to think I'm desperate, or "just some little annoying girl". He wouldnt think that way, i know, but still. just that fear, ya know.......and I have told him more than once that I liked him. When my freind clled him, one of the first things she said was "She wants to know if you'll go out with her." I still dont know how he feels about me, even though he was presented with plenty of opportunities to acknowledge my feelings for him in some way(negative or positive) though.... we did talk mre than an hour on th phone.................................ooohhhhhhh..................I'm just really confused!
2006-12-04 11:08:43 · update #1
I dont live near him, really,and my mom and sister hate him. I live in a different city, and my mom and sister, they are all factors, so I cant hang out wit him. He is also almost 18, an I'm 14, and I told him, and I asked him if he cared, and he wasnt sure. I just dont want him to think I'm desperate, or "just some little annoying girl". He wouldnt think that way, i know, but still. just that fear, ya know.......and I have told him more than once that I liked him. When my freind called him, one of the first things she said was "She wants to know if you'll go out with her." I still dont know how he feels about me, even though he was presented with plenty of opportunities to acknowledge my feelings for him in some way(negative or positive) ...though.... we did talk more than an hour on the phone.................................ooohhhhhhh..................I'm just really confused!
2006-12-04 11:12:26 · update #2
please ignoe the repeated paragraph................I dont know how to fix it!
2006-12-04 11:15:01 · update #3
Well first off EVERY GIRL. gets nervous but it is usually when we really like someone. Try telling yourself that you can do it. The only way you can have him or even try to get him is to talk to him. Grab your phone and hold it in your hand. Think to yourself. I can do this. He is just another guy. When you call him Speak to him CALMY. Like you have done this a million times. If you dont know what to say ask him how he has been? then how his day was? Ask him questions about him. After a while a conversation will be started and you have moved forward and should be able to call him. You need to realize that the reason you cant do it is cuz your dont have the confidence. Breath and just do it. I know you can.
2006-12-04 10:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he told u not to be nervous then it sounds like u really should just go for it. Not only that but for a fact i know that the longer u wait the more awkward it will be and harder to actually do it. U can also set up some cards or write something down on paper like topics to discuss, like family, school, jobs, kids pending on age. Always bring up great memories like jokes, or old people, movies that u saw. If u know he is available and may even be interested in u then tell him casually that u want to hang out, and go to a movie or a really good restaurant near ur house where u can feel comfortable.
2006-12-04 18:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by mesuresowner1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh yeah... lol this STILL happens to me! *with my new bf*
I guess everyone can freak out over that one simple question: "what do they really think of me?" Well, the one thing I've learned that calms me down is the fact that they probably feel the same way!
2006-12-04 18:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse dear...shyness is natural...but you have to face your fears... its good to practice with a guy friend (in case of emergency your girl friend *just for fun*) someone you can trust....so it can loosen you up to talk to a guy..
2006-12-04 18:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by nativebeauty22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure if you just call him, he will calm your nerves just by his personality as you describe him. Just think positive and give him a call, he will be happy to talk to you.
2006-12-04 18:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by ryrysofly11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is be it hard but u can get the courage to talk to him and i get a friend to ask for him so try that it might work and try to face your fears and if you start to talk to him u might just get use to it good luck
2006-12-04 18:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by u rox my sox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous! Just be you and give that guy all you got! Let him no you aren't afraid! Just be you!
2006-12-04 18:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgosh dat sounds lyk how i am wit my boyfriend..and he told me da SAME EXACT THING! wow..dis is so freak!. i have, not plenty of tyms, i dont kno why becuase its jus him...he is reallii da onlii one dat i reallii loved
2006-12-04 18:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes of course
2006-12-04 18:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by crazynamug1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in that situation...i can never call a guy like's cell...idk why but its reli weird
2006-12-04 18:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by lax4life0022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋