I'll never understand men...
I went to two dates with X, but nothing happened, not even a kiss! we talk a lot, flirt a tiny bit, but that is it.
He told me on Saturday that he was going to go to some common friends xmas drinks but he didn't make it and he didn't tell me he was not coming :-(
Now I just wonder if he didn't misinterprete what I did /say...
I saw him on Saturday pm but vaguely mentioned I was meeting a friend of mine later. A good 3hrs later, he was surprised when I told him I was meeting up with her in 30mn for a drink. She invited him along but I didn't as I didn't want to impose him to my friends just in case they'd be the 3rd wheels.
I guess he now thinks I am a lunatic... Shall I just drop him a quick friendly e-mail or shall I just leave it as it could make htings worse?
2006-12-04 10:29:20 · 9 answers · asked by Coffee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could try speaking English to each other.
Ususally works.
2006-12-04 10:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah the trials of clear communication.
Why not get in touch? Its no big deal.
If the bald truth is he's not interested (well, I mean..2 dates..nit even a kiss...what is he like?) it should be clear soon...and you can get on looking for someone who is easier to communicate with...
OR - Maybe, on Saturday, he thought if you were with a friend...he'd be the 3rd wheel as you call it!
Give hiome a call...there mught have been some other thing come up that he wasn't expecting! No point in getting yourself down when a quick chat could put it all right!
2006-12-04 10:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I should just leave things as they are. If a relationship is going to develop then it will happen naturally. He may be slow on the uptake or wants you just as a friend
2006-12-04 10:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Birdman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONE: You will never know what is on his mind - unless you ask him!!!
TWO: Don't over analyze the situation!!! If he didn't go - who cares!.... you know you can have just as much fun with or without him =)
2006-12-04 10:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by gabster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry peeps but i will never understand men either. but i do know what i want and if you want him go after him gal although i haven't met one yet worth the effort is he?
2006-12-04 10:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date XY instead(-;
2006-12-04 10:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it ... i dont think hes really interested ... plenty more fish in the sea ... if he wants u he will chase u ....
2006-12-04 10:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by jizzumonkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really get Wat your talking about. do you think hes cheating on you or does he think you cheating on him or Wat i am so confused.
2006-12-04 10:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Spencer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋