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2006-12-04 10:27:22 · 28 answers · asked by luckylove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
as i believe there`s nothing that is "right" or "wrong" because these are points of view that differs from a person to another but healthy relationships are based on trust and respect and i doubt that a guy who would look at another woman "no matter how sexier she is" is capable of giving me the piece and happiness that i would expect in a relationship, everyone needs to feel desired and special, and for girls it is all about knowing that her and only her can keep him satisfied that he wouldn`t want to look at another girl. the best relation that every girl dream of is the one that make her feel that she is the one who brings light to his life that he wouldn`t need any other source.
2006-12-04 10:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thinks it's human nature for a man or a woman to look at someone (opposite sex or not what ever they are attracted to). Do you look at other guys even though you are married? You can't help but look at something that looks good. As far as being wrong, it's not at all as long as no touching is involved.
2006-12-04 10:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not, "You may be chained to the porch but you can still bark at the cars passing by."
LOOKING is fine. Touching not fine! Flirting is a gray area... My BF and I got in a fight cus I flirted with this guy to get something for a cheaper price at the mall and he just happened to see. He was not thrilled and I understand why. A wondering eye is healthy. I LOVE my BF but I am not dead to the world and if a hot guy walks by me or comes into my work I will glance and I would expect him to do the same with a hot chick. No need to go flirt or get a phone number... Just admiring a nice face or body etc...
2006-12-04 10:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by hoppinalongthelilypads 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's normal for guys to look at other girls and it's normal for girls to look at other guys. I don't think it's wrong, I just think it's human nature.
When I'm in a relationship with a guy and he looks at other girls, sure I might get a little jealous or maybe not, but I know he's with me and hopefully wouldn't do anything to hurt me. Sometimes I look at other guys, maybe they're cute or just curious to see what they're wearing or what have you, but it's not like I'm going to do anything.
I believe in the it's okay to look, but no touching policy.
2006-12-04 10:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by qrazigirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's rather normal. As long as they don't want to do anything. If you choke the guy, so he can't even look, or think about anything besides you, he'll push away. If you trust him, it's ok. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. I used to get jelous about this kind of thing. But, now that we're so confortable with eachother, we tease eachother about that kind of thing. If you're so worried about him cheating on you, if he looks at someone else, then there's a problem.
2006-12-04 11:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by u2king13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think it's very insecure women who think it's wrong for a man to look at another woman. Men are not blind! So if your man can't look at another woman and appreciate her beauty innocently, then I guess you also can't look at another man and say he's hot. Rules are rules. If you trust your man, then looking shouldn't matter. Either he'll look & not touch, or he won't and he's an ***. If you don't trust him then why are you with him? If it makes you that insecure then maybe you need to talk to him and look within yourself to find out why. Marriage does not equal blindness.
2006-12-04 10:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. It's only wrong if you act on it or look differently at your spouse because they don't live up the object of your brief attraction.
2006-12-04 10:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Mike S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you define "look". My husband rarely notices other women unless there's something remarkable about them that I'd also notice. A glance is normal. Staring and turning his head to watch her walk by is rude.
2006-12-04 10:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a drop dead gorgeous guy walked by wouldn't YOU look????
DON'T EVEN TRY TO SAY NO!! you'd be kidding yourself!
It's completely natural
you need to feel more secure in your relationship, and realize that his wedding band doesn't affect his eyesight!
don't worry about it. EVERYBODY does it.
2006-12-04 10:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by Meli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he's supposed to look straight down at the ground everytime a woman walks into the woman, then?
Sure, that's not unreasonable at all......
2006-12-04 10:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋