is jealousy really a bad thing. see the thing is i get extremely jealous when my girlfriend is around he guy friends b/c all they ever do is look at her *** and boobs. now everything inside me makes me want to extremely hurt these guys but that will just cause problems between me and her. but it hurts me badly to see her friends flirt with her right in front of me. help please
2006-12-04 10:25:20 · 13 answers · asked by teamo1224430 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might want to ask yourself why she hangs around these guys that check her out. She probably does it to get a rise out of you or is just an avid attention whore. In that case, your relationship is probably not worth much.
2006-12-04 10:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kami 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO jealousy is not a bad thing but it might not be really what you think it is and if you have a real problem with it then just show your girl how much you really love her like with a nice friendly kiss sometimes or a present. And if you want to show those guys that she's your girl and to back off with out really saying to them then just tell her that you love her and give her a Nice romantic kiss right in front of those jerks and show them who's boss!! Plus if you talk to those guys nicely so they don't beat you up maybe they will see that she is your girl and leave her alone. And if this keeps happening then flirt with other girls around her and she will stop believe me!!! Well I hope I helped!! Thanks!!
2006-12-04 10:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to calm down a bit and explain to her how it makes you feel. Being a guy you notice they are flirting and staring. Girls dont usually know when a guy is flirting. Try explaining to her that it makes you jealous and kinda mad when you see her guys friend flirting with her. Make sure you explain to her that you dont care if she has guy friend but when they flirt with her right in front of you it hurts. If she really likes you she will say something like. I dont care if they are flirting with me. I know who I am with and it is flirting I dont flirt back and I can about you. I am not gonna let that ruin us. But if you dont get a positive response it is time to move on. Woman can be harsh but it is life. Moto Friends come before boyfriends. Always will be that way but there is ways around it too. Hoepfully she understands where your coming from. Good Luck hope I could help.
2006-12-04 10:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy is not a bad thing. It's a natural feeling. When you really like someone you tend to feel that way if they're giving attention or getting attention from someone else. It's kinda being selfish but it's ver understanding. Talk to them guys and tell them how you feel. Tell her also. Communication is very important in every aspect of life. Talk.
2006-12-04 10:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by tinalovesmusic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, sometimes I feel like that too. And I want to either kill them or kill myself. But you see, jealousy is only created by your brain and is nothing deep. Just tell your brain to not make you feel jealous when people are flirting with your girlfriend. See, jealousy happens because you think that they are more capable of loving her and that you might lose her. But if you really knew that you loved her, there wouldn't be nothing to be jealous about. And if she sees you getting mad, she'll get mad at you too. Nobody likes people who are angry. So do you want to love her, or do you just want her to love you, always be next to you, tell you that she'll always be with you, etc.?
It's not natural to be jealous, but it's natural to flirt.
2006-12-04 10:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how jealous the person but a little bit of jealousy is not a bad thing! Good luck in all you do!
2006-12-04 10:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get jealous when my boyfriends female friends flirt with him too. It's not wrong to be jealous, but it is wrong to act on your jealousy. If it bothers you a lot, maybe you should talk to her about it.
2006-12-04 10:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by redbloodandroses 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being jealous is normal. But if you let it get out of control, it could cause issues in your relationship.
2006-12-04 10:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jealousy is normal. but don't let it get outta control. as long as your girl makes sure you know she's all yours, don't trip. it's a sign of being insecure and if you have a great relationship, you got nothing to worry about!
2006-12-04 10:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by green eyed sole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's only natural to be jealous - just try and get over it. Or tell your girl how you feel - maybe she'll cover up more.
2006-12-04 10:29:32 · answer #10 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋