"i wanna see you like every two weeks or something cos things will get complicated..youll ask,why i didnt call,why i didnt come..".he said.Then he said "i wanna see you,but not ALLthe time!".But would you get from that?
2006-12-04 10:18:31 · 17 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plus i asked why he never calls but i do and he said "i do!sometimes!but i do reply to your texts!
2006-12-04 10:19:50 · update #1
He's just not that into you.
2006-12-04 10:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is spending his free time with U, playing if U know what I mean.
I suggest U don't call him anymore, don't text him -ignore him- be very calm.. Let him wonder what is going on ( act the way he acts with U towords ur calls & text msgs) don't let him feel that he is the only thing that U think about, till he tells U that he wants to know or talk about ur changing then U can tell him that U felt that U aren't important to him so better to be friends.. If at that time he insiste that U are not a fiend but more then U can atart it again from their & put Ur conditions ! Good luck.
2006-12-04 18:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a commitment phobic..
It doesn't sound like he's at all serious about you, but you are about him.
Try this: back off, don't call, don't text, don't even speak to him if you see him except for a breezy "Oh, hi. didn't see you there"
After a week or two he will be putty in your hands and you can chalk one up to feminine ways winning again.
Boys hate to be ignored, and generally they always want what they believe they can't have. be cool, be elusive, you'll get him in the end.
2006-12-04 18:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by evil_nykki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's saying that he wants his space. He wants some of his time to himself...the man's got to breathe. I know, I've pushed men away in the past from being around them 24/7, and it's not good for the relaionship! If you want it to last give him is time to do want he needs or wants....you may grow closer you never know. And by doing that, that is where the trust will come in also. You have to learn to trust...good luck and hope this has helped you in some way!
2006-12-04 18:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by So you think you know me!? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God..i get the same thing... i know how you feel..im not sure if hes seeing someone else or not, but it gets very discouraging..i call him too and hardly ever get a call from him..we would rather IM me or text me..why, i dont have a clue..im thinking to maybe start looking elsewhere..
2006-12-04 18:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ease away from seeing him you don't need to call or see the person 24/7 so listen to him and start doing your own things
HUGS
2006-12-04 18:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants to spend time with you when he is not with someone else. He sounds like a player, so if you want more from the relationship, then look for someone new.
2006-12-04 18:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like you enough to really make a commitment or really date. Or, he likes you, but perhaps has other girls he's seeing as well, that he doesn't want you to know about. Either way, this guy sounds sketch.
2006-12-04 18:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violet Pearl has hit the nail on the head...
2006-12-04 18:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by blahblahblah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him keep seeing him and try to talk 2 him and work it out. but if hes just a fling then stop calling and texting, see if he contacs you.....
2006-12-04 18:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by kitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's thinking about breaking up.Maybe that's why he doesn't want to seeyou as much anymore.Move on.
2006-12-04 18:23:01 · answer #11 · answered by Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋