my dad says that i can't ask guys out.that its just not right?is he right?or can i ask someone if i really like him?and how would i?ive never talked to him and idk if he likes me or not.and i dont know what i would say to him besides "hey i like you.want to go out?"cuz im shy and ive never gone on an actuall date b4.(Im only 13 though)what is your opinion?
2006-12-04 10:17:38 · 23 answers · asked by christine... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should give him signals that u lyk him, not ask him out..if he lyks u he would come around..an if he doesnt, its good, help u got get rejected..Good Luck!
2006-12-04 10:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think its perfectly alright to ask a guy out.Times have changed I feel that it lets people know that your a very confident.Since you haven't actually talked with him put your self in a situation where y'all will be at the same place at school so that way you can strike up a conversation or just say Hi and keep doing this over a short period of time and each time yall should talk more.Than you can casually ask him to the movies or whatever you want to do.
2006-12-04 10:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by country girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him!
All too often, women (and girls too!) complain that there are not enough good guys, all the good ones are taken, no one asks them out...etc. Much of that complaining and greif would be null and void if ladies took the initiative and starting asking guys themselves.
the main problem is this: women are afraid of being told "no". they think, "if i ask him and he says no, i'll be hurt and disappointed!".
you know what? GUYS FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT ASKING OUT GIRLS!!!! but we do it all the time.
if you have a mom and a dad, get them both together to talk about this. ask them if they want you to be able to take care of yourself when you're older. ask them if they want you to be your own person, able to make decisionts that are right for you. ask them if they want you to have the courage to face difficult situations and make the right decision. ask them if the world you're growing up in is one that is fair and equal for both genders. if they say anything close to yes to any of these questions, then they've just answered your question to "is it ok for a girl to ask a guy out".
2006-12-04 10:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by Michael JB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a gurl.. and just today i asked a guy out.. and he said yes!
when your dad was a kid it probably just wasnt an accepted idea then!
dont worry 2 much about it.. either do it yourself or have a friend maybe?
but do it in person.. its a little harder but worth it in the long-run!
dont write it down on a note.. who knows who mite read it!
and btw im 13 also((7th grade))!!
good luck!!
i think that some guy say girls shouldnt ask them out b/c it makes them feel superior over the girl in a relationship?
maybe.. just a gess.. and not for all or even most guys.. i just think for some guys that makes them feel more manly
2006-12-04 10:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is okay for a girl to ask a guy out if she has been friends for a while but other than that no it is not. So just become friends with him and you shouldnt be going out before your 16.
2006-12-04 10:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by Redneck Midget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your beliefs. i'm 14 and 3 weeks ago, my BF asked me out (he's my 1st and i'm his 1st) find out how he likes you, and move from there, if he does like you like that, then tell him that you r available, and that u lk him. and if he does like you and knows u like him, don't worry if he doesn't ask right away, he is getting the courage to do it. but if a couple weeks go by and nothing has happened with him askingyou out, then do it your self, you could say "we both like each ohter, so why don't we go out?" that is very casual and shouldn't be too embrasssing
good luck
2006-12-04 10:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds really cute. "Hey, I like you, wanna go out?" And don't listen to your dad when he says you can't ask guys out. Just cause he's never been asked out in his whole life... Okay that was a joke. But you can ask guys out. Say that to him - Hey, I like you, wanna go out?
2006-12-04 10:21:49 · answer #7 · answered by Maus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm a guy and Ive had some girls ask me out and i thought it was cool cuz they didn't think it was weird or anything so yeah its Fine.
guys kinda like it
2006-12-04 10:23:17 · answer #8 · answered by Spencer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only 13 so that is, maybe, one reason your dad says no. but it is ok for girls to ask guys out. take some of that heat off the guys and you may very well be nicely surprised. but since you are 13, you have to listen to daddy until otherwise notified. sorry.
2006-12-04 10:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, the reason why your dad said that was because guys typically like to make the first move, and to pursue the relationship. Personally, I would wait for the guy.
2006-12-04 10:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by Liz♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your dad this is 2006 not 1956 so go for it and ask to your heart content =)
2006-12-04 10:21:51 · answer #11 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋