hi.well i hope i can get some good awnsers here.im about to go crazy.and pardon my english,im norwegian...
im 19 and my girlfriend is 18 and we have been together for 1year now.the thing is that i realy love her,but she has disapointed me many times now.se jused drugs even when she promised not to.she cheated on me,which made me dump here but she talked me in to getting back together.she choses to be with other gyes rather than me.and many other things.i was not jealus before,but after all the cheating and lies i feel horible everytime she is not around.and she lives 2hours away from me.after all this,is it whise of me to bee with her?i have tried to talk with here but she promises on and on,and keep breaking them.what shuld i do???i realy feel like i need help cus i feel realy bad about this.i realy love here but is it worth it?
2006-12-04 10:09:28 · 25 answers · asked by Daniel S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drugs and other men. I think you need to space yourself from her and move on. It is always hard to be apart from someone you are dating because you are use to them being around and their company. You have mentioned some serious things she is doing and she is very young and so are you. I would separate yourself from her, start hanging out with your friends when you start missing her and learn more about yourself. You have no other connections with this girl, no children or anything. So no I don't think it is worth saving a relationship that is already broken. Stop hurting yourself and breaking your heart with this girl that just doesn't treat you with respect. Move on, and you'll find someone that will treat you like a Prince and give you respect..
2006-12-04 10:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude its pretty obvious that u cant trust her...but u sound like u really luv her and its probably not the wisest thing to do to continue the relationship it mite b a total waste of tym and u'll end up broken hearted in the end... then again u mite not mayb she does mean to keep her promises and she's jus findin it very difficult to and plus she's on drugs so of course she'll b a lil screwed up...and if she's addicted u cant jus expect her to get up n quit jus cuz she promised u... anyways i say give her a next chance and let her know that if she really loves u bak this is the last chance she'll ever hav to prove it and tell her that if she screws up this chance that u wont go bak wid her ever again and that u will move on and find smeone else who is better and can treat u rite... I mean if it was me I seriously wudnt want to continue it but if i'd really love her i dont think i cud help but to give her another chance jus cuz i cudnt stand losin her even if she cheated, lied and did drugs...I mean thats jus how i am...mite sound crazy but its true
2006-12-04 19:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting laid is an option but if you're into a relationship run, not walk to the nearest exit from this situation. Obviously, you've got a bad case of 'hot pants' and it's clouding your thinking. You've gotta sort out the love and the horemones and get on with your life. Perhaps a girl closer to home and a little less exciting would be better in a relationship.
2006-12-04 18:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by bobjj123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both are very young and are bound to make mistakes in your lives. At this point I would say that trust is something she would have to relearn and may not be able to do at this time. Drugs make people do things that they normally may not do, As she is doing drugs and lives so far away from you, I would let her go for now. If you two really love each other and are meant to be the gods will bring you back together when she is clean and you do not have to be so far away from each other. For now live your life and enjoy being young. Date other girls, live, love, be happy.
2006-12-04 18:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u tell me. dont put your whole heart into her. It has happened to my sis before. There was a 1 year age difference too, but mood swings and 'bossiness' can really shake a relationship. first off, drugs? Ummm... no offense but i would be running. Other guys? Umm... no offense either but good bye! Lies? Well, some i guess, but too many no way. Well its your decision, dont put your whole heart into 1 girl, because if you guys ever break up, u'll be like my sis and never find another guy. Luckily shes still in college.
2006-12-04 18:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by zacharydai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not worth it if u keep getting hurt like this, obviously she doesnt care that she is hurting u. I think u need to break up with her and this time not taking her back because when u do this then she thinks that its ok to do the stuff she is doing becasue then all she has to do is talk u back into getting with her again.
Hope that helps.
2006-12-04 18:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by americangurl92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't trust your girlfriend. If you could, you probably wouldn't have even posted this question. She is manipulating you and dragging you into her problems. Stand up for yourself and dump her and move on. You will find better, I promise. Just give it some time.
2006-12-04 18:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do urself a favor and GET OUT NOW! it's NOT WORTH IT u deserve better and u sound like a good person so don't keep subjecting urself to constant dissapointment by this person.
2006-12-04 18:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kaffy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r young bud. Take yr time. U think u can't live without her but r u really sure? Think about it. Drugs, lies, promises..... stay away. Dont' call her anymore. If she really loves u, she will look for u and u 'll have yr answer.
2006-12-04 18:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by kaypy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i feel that you can't have a good relationship without trust and it seems that she has proven herself not trustworthy. You say you love her and i respect that but love needs to be flowing both ways. You seem like a pretty cool guy and you deserve someone who appreciates you... so to answer your question, no, i don't think it's worth it!
2006-12-04 21:13:02 · answer #10 · answered by *DeLiCiOsA* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋