I suppose if I loved this woman enough I would be open to this. Though, I am certain that I would feel a bit jealous. Threesomes sound fun . Just make sure to talk to your male partner about this... discuss any boundries that you may have etc... Be open and honest about your emotional and physical needs . I'm sure this sounds a lot easier to persue than it is in practice. Just be open and honest about your feelings and you will most likely be ok.
2006-12-04 10:16:43
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answered by captainkirkwood 2
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Hmm. I'm a bit old-fashioned in my definitions. I tend to think "wife" implies "monogomous" so that part of the question doesn't apply.
If she were "openly" bi-sexual, then it seems logical that I would have been previously aware of her preferences. Therefore I must be OK with it or she woudn't be my girlfriend - and that's a condition of your question.
The reverse is also true. If she were my girlfriend then she can't prefer women more than men or at least to the exclusion of men - in this case, me. Othewise she'd be the other girl's girlfriend and I wouldn't be in the picture at all.
So in any event, I see no reason to be jealous.
As for joining in, "bi-sexual" doesn't automatically equal a threesome. That would be between her and her lover.
2006-12-04 18:23:49
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answered by Atrocious 3
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I wouldn't mind if my wife was openly bisexual, it would help to spice things up a bit every now and then.
2006-12-04 18:16:13
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answered by Winter Loving Guy 4
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I'd be open minded. Probably let her fly solo her first few times find out if she's really into it. then see if I could watch a little see if her partner is even into me, befoer I asked aobut joining in. But I have such a high sex drive she'd have to find one for me to amuse myself with while she was there with another girl.
2006-12-04 18:14:44
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answered by cisco_cantu 6
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I would be ok with that. If they wanted me to join then i would. It would be a great experience bring new terms to the old pharse "the more the merrier"
2006-12-04 18:53:54
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answered by Vader 2
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Openly, I don't mind. It's when they think they got to hide it that burns me up.
2006-12-04 18:09:02
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answered by Cameron L 4
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my last g/f was bi-sexual we had a blast with 3 somes
2006-12-04 18:10:03
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answered by Anonymous
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