Do You Ever Get Accused Of Flirting When You Know You Are Not?

Question

Okay, here is the thing. I was raised with boys; 2 brothers, tons of uncles, and male cousins. I was a tomboy from Hell growing up, and that is one switch you can't flip off.

Now, when I go out with my guy friends, and just hang out with my guy friends, or meet guys in general, I can get to a "guy's" level, whether it be getting down to, or up to.

I get accused a lot of flirting by other people. Not my friends though, they think it's a relief to have a gal pal they can be themselves with that does not judge what they say or do. They are relieved that they can be normal with a girl. Half the time they take me under their wing like a sister.

Just because I can "get" the jokes, and I can one-up on almost anything, why can people not accept that it's not flirting?

Answer 1

I'm like you! My mum was married to the president of the local football team so I grew up surrounded by male team players all my life. I actually much prefer to go out partying with men! I recently went out with a group of 4 girls and seemed to spend the whole night with them telling me that they were going to the ladies...like i would care!! When I got back from the ladies they were all saying "oh you should have told us, we would have come with you" They even told me every time they went to the bar...When I'm with the lads, we just make sure every one knows which pub we are all at!!!! My husband thinks its great because I'm not at him all the time for going out with his mates because i go too!!! Even sometimes his mates just take me to the local for a few after work.


But yeah i do agree, most girls are uncomfortable with it and think I'm a flirt.

Answer 2

Yowee, Um, No, no longer deliberately. I'm no longer feeling so well approximately me now, might be I will have to become a member of a convent? LOLOLOLOL. It kinda confuses me, however I kinda get it too, that nobody will get TOP in P&S, and if my "bests" are any indication of a percent of my solutions, I'm kinda low at the "potem tole." Hi, Hugs, Wink, Wink, smile, flirt, flipping my skirt, Hubba hubba, YAHOOOO, yowdie, howdie. Did any of that sound like flirting? Gulp. Dallas

Answer 3

Sometimes people are flirting but don't think they are/ or
don't know that they are.
It can be from a certain way you smile. walk, talk. Body language.
Even laughing at times is considered flirting.
Keep your self in check and you should have no problems
Be yourself but not*overly being yourself*