I am not at all afraid of boys my age touching me. I mean at all. But if the boy is about in the 11th grade (im in the 8th) I don't like it and I pull away. Am I being rude? I'm not sure. Even if they are just being freindly I feel uncomfortable, is this weird?
2006-12-04 09:45:31 · 9 answers · asked by puffalump 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if they are touching you in an intimidating way and without your permission, then it is normal to feel afraid. what they are doing is wrong.
if these are friends who are touching you, then yes, it can still be scary. physical closeness is a very imtimate thing. we as humans like to have our own space.. and when people violate that space, even if done in a friendly way, it can still be scary..
2006-12-04 10:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay! personally i wouldn't want someone much older than me touching me either. i think it's just a natural responce. When someone is so much older we basically have the least control of the situation, unlike 8th grade boys where we could just knee 'em lol! and get on with our lives.
it's not rude at all, if you don't want them to touch you and you pull away it's your own personal decision and they should respect that!
~i hope this helps :)
2006-12-04 09:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by keeka2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's weird..i mean you're young to be hanging out with juniors..you're only in 8th grade! hang out with people your own age...i'm a junior this year and the boys are just as immature now as they were in 8th grade...if you don't feel comfortable with a guy touching you then don't be afriad to tell him to stop...don't be afraid to say no..it's not rude...don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing
2006-12-04 09:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idk.. I would never settle for ANY guy to touch me.. cuz if they do that, then what else would they do? lol. It gives you the wrong kinda image if you know what i mean, and you're not being rude at all b/c WE are the ones living in our body, i mean they shouldn't have any right to touch things lol.
2006-12-04 09:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight up, this guy needs to be reported. To the police, the school or both.
2006-12-04 09:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like boys touching me either.
2006-12-04 09:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is normal... its just something your not comfertable with and that okay. As you get older you will want it though because you will be used to those things.
2006-12-04 09:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kate L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel weird..
because think about it..
if he was really "cool"
then no odffence then
he would get girls his own
age. and if hes touching
you .. then he might just
be looking to "get some."
2006-12-04 09:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by annmbob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're a jr lesbian!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-12-04 09:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋