I asked my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years yesterday if he wants to stay together in college and he was just like "well, i dunno". I'm pretty sure that means probably not. If it does mean that he doesn't want to stay together in college, is it worth it to stay together for the rest of our senior year?
2006-12-04 09:34:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what's the point of staying together now if I already know it's going to end?
2006-12-04 09:35:38 · update #1
I feel like it'd be a waste of time to stay together now if its going to end because then I could be trying new things, and meeting new people. This is my first serioud boyfriend..shouldn't I try something new? ahhh I don't know what to do..:(
2006-12-04 09:47:04 · update #2
Why make a decisoin now. Just chill and have fun your senior year! If things work out then they will. but believe me, if he's not so sure, I would just put it on hold. College is a time to get out and meet new people and do things you never thought you would.
2006-12-04 09:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Meagan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard decision to make. From the way it sounds as soon as u 2 graduate an go away to college it wont last truthfully. Are you 2 going to the same college? If you 2 are then there might be a chance for ya to stay together, but if going to 2 separate schools then it wont last very long. Is it worth staying together for the rest of the school year thats really a question that you have to decide, do whats in your heart. Only you know what to do with your life others can only guide you but not tell you what to do. i know i am a stranger but if u ever want to talk about this one on one i would be more then happy to, i have messenger or u can email me an ill give u all the advise that you are seeking. i know its hard jus do what is in your heart.
2006-12-04 18:32:32 · answer #2 · answered by evans2213 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him what "well, I dunno" means. If it means that your relationship with him now is not that important, then don't waste your time. If it means that he is not sure what a long distance relationship will be like and he does not know if it is a good idea, then you both need to talk about it as you get closer to the summer.
It sounds like it means that the relationship is not that important, but I do not know him and cannot be sure.
Take care,
Troy
2006-12-04 17:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly! Free yourself now and experience as much as you can for the rest of the yr. ENJOY LIFE NOW because its not that much fun later! Or at least till you turn 21!
2006-12-04 17:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once he goes away to college, and views the "@ss buffet" there, it's all over!! Drunk college girls RULE!!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-12-04 17:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
?At least givit a shot . Got nothing to use.
2006-12-04 17:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋