Im 18 and I've never been in a relationship before. I've never dated, kissed, or slept with any guy ever before. Do you think I'm too old to never have done this stuff before? If so, how can I bloom. I currently don't see any guys that I'm interested in.
2006-12-04 09:30:05 · 14 answers · asked by 09 _ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not to old and you are perfectly fine and just because you haven't done any of this doesn't meen you can rush it so if you don't find anyone your interested in now i'm sure you will soon because you sound like a great person and i'm sure the perfect guy for you will find you soon!
2006-12-04 09:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Alice C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are YOUNG! There is not a right age to have done all this stuff. It'll happen when it happens. There is someone out there for everyone and you just have to be patient.
Enjoy the time alone that you have right now because you will have so many years to be tied down.
Are you shy? Is it possible that you're gay? My advice is to get involved in some social activities that YOU are interested in. You're likely to meet someone without even looking.
2006-12-04 17:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not too old at all... I'm 17 (will be 18 in a few months) and all I have done is kiss a guy, but no dating or sex or anything. I think we need to wait for someone special instead of wasting our time with a loser who will probably only break our heart. Good luck finding that special someone :)
2006-12-04 17:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't do anything until i was 24. you're better off waiting.. so many people have told me that their teenage dating experiences were a big waste of time and that they regret losing their viriginity at a time when they couldn't really appreciate the true emotional value of sex.
don't feel you have to date just because everyone else seems to.. last thing you want is to be in a bad relationship..
stay positive and keep a healthy attitude, and you'll be ready to date when the right guy comes along.
2006-12-04 18:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you have the right idea. Be picky~ too many girls will sleep with the first guy that smiles at them. It is not too late to "bloom". Don't rush yourself, the right guy will come along and he will be patient about what you have and haven't done and what you will and will not try. Good luck, darling!! : )
2006-12-04 17:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Pirate Hooker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready you'll start seeing guys.
It's perfectly fine, just be yourself and if the mood strikes then kiss a gyu ask a guy out, but don't rush yourself. No matter how bad the first kiss is it'll be good, but if you rush you may regret who it is with.
2006-12-04 17:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are still young, but it is time that you start dating, if you don't like any guys that you see, wiat for the right guy, but do not wait too much. some guys prefer girls that have never dated before, since they will have her all for themselves.
good luck and take care
2006-12-04 17:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you are not too old.... i didn't have a boyfriend until i was 18! I was 22 when i lost my virginity... So you have all the time in the world.
2006-12-04 17:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by daisyduke_205 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just like you until I met my husband when I was 19. I had no intrest in guys, never kissed anyone, never dated, never had sex. Just wait for the right guy, I promise you won't regret it.
2006-12-04 17:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember good things come to those who wait......Get ready, he'll probably be worth the wait.NO, you are not too old, you just begun to live---you'll see.
2006-12-04 18:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋