We hang out all the time, we laugh, we joke, we argue and make up...the communication is almost perfect and lately I have been catching him staring at me when I am looking another direction.
He calls me all the time and includes me in stuff that goes on. I hate to admit it, but the dreaded "L" word has been creeping across my mind when I think about him. The thought of him not being there makes my heart ache and I have even shed a few tears.
He is moving soon and I want to tell him that I would like to move closer to him, but since we are not officially "together", I don't quite know how to say that without sounding presumptuous at the thought of us being together.
I really like him and I am sure he feels the same, but I don't know if his feelings are as strong as mine. What are some ways to tell? How did you know you were "in love" when you felt it for the first time? Guys aren't as verbal as girls so what are some signs to look out for to know if he feels the same as you?
2006-12-04 09:27:37 · 12 answers · asked by b_sampson98055 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not easy to talk about your own emotions when the sitaution isn't "clear". If you don't tell him now, there might be a chance that you would regret..start with that your friendship will change when he moves and that you're going to miss him more than he could think of...Good luck! I'm 99.99% sure that he loves you too! :)
2006-12-04 09:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this guy digs you. I say ask him out when you are a litle but alone. Dont do it on the day he leaves. That will be sad. How can i tell if a aguy lilkes me? I am not going to lie - I have no freaking idea! I have never been togather with a guy, but i have experience in asking them. ( Results dont matter ) Well it sounds like you are in love, because you are asking about this guy, and you mak it sound like he is perfect for you. I mean friends, phone, fights. He really likes you if he is the one that said sorry to begin with. Look, just ask this guy out. He could be the luckyest guy in the world to have you, so jsut ask. peace!
2006-12-04 09:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Star 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since he is moving wryt him a note telling him how u feel. Don't let n e 1 give it 2 him, cuz they may read it and tell other ppl. He probaly does "L" u. Give him the note personally. Also ask 4 his new phone # and adress so ull keep in contact. Also don't b lieve out of syt out of mind. I liked this guy and he moved but i still think about him. So take a pix of him and wryt info bout him, ull nvr 4get him that way!
2006-12-04 09:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by GabbyElora 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The next time you have a good laughing moment tell him that you are going to be sad when he moves... you are going to miss his company, miss how he can make you laugh at just the right time when you feel like crying... That will put the ball in his court and you will know how he feels without coming right out and telling him...
2006-12-04 09:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by daisyduke_205 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have commitment issues..your scared hes not gonna be there.. yeah love is a very hard thing to say for most people but honestly..if you really where in love with this guy you would have no problem saying the L word!!!
there seems like there is great chemistry between you both!!
i would say tell him how you feel before he leaves other wise you will always wonder 'what if'????
2006-12-04 09:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by cinderella 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He defenatly has feelings for you...Guys really don't say I love you...How about one night you tell him that you hate that he's moving and that you have a lot of feelings for him and that you will always have love for him...and you can tell by looking in his eyes that he feels the same...
2006-12-04 09:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you definetly love him from the way you are speaking and believe me, the thought of both of you together has passed through his mind
2006-12-04 09:31:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if ur hanging out more that should b a sign wink wink better say something b4 he leaves...
2006-12-04 09:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have one of ur friends (( inconspiculously )) ask him if he likes you.. if he does, have ur friends hint at him that u like him... friends usually love to be messenger... lol good luck w/ ur guy
2006-12-04 09:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
do it! do IT!
Ask him about his feelings in the relationship.
you will be kicking yourself later if you don't !!
go for it!
2006-12-04 09:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋