My boyfriend of a year and some months, gets on party lines and has several single website memberships. His attitude has not chamged towards me. He still gives me plenty of affection and attention and he loves me very much. He does not go out and meet these women, but he constantly goes on these sites. What is that all about?
2006-12-04 09:00:26 · 13 answers · asked by alphasweet06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a guy and, honestly and as much as you don't want to here this, your boyfriend (and guys in general) want to get in as many girl's pants as he can. Men are horny! Maybe this just shows you that you must show him an increased amount of sexual pleasure but that is up to you. Godd luck with your relationship.
2006-12-04 09:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Wout 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you're probably too young to be worrying about this guy if he's not the "one". How do you figure that out? Well, is "the one" the guy who goes on chat lines and has virtual affairs with strange women? If you can answer this yes, well, then you've got your man.
I've dated lots of guys, and several have had this issue. I can guarantee that continued use of this form can never go anywhere good. He or you may not be able to see this now, but down the road, this will get boring, and someone else will be giving him validation. This time it could be some chic from work, or the mailwoman. Who knows?
It may be harmless for now, but if you don't like it, tell him so. Tell him that you have boundaries, and this is one of them.
2006-12-04 17:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by SweetCharie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend. your boyfriend is male... we males on a subconcious level seek validation.
why do you think male animals just want to have sex? it's the male thing.. you can't change it. and according to you it's harmless.. I'm quoting you: "He does not go out and meet these women". a male always needs affirmation of his manlyhood.!! you may want to consider improving the way you express how much you are fascinated by the MAN he is (not just his feelings and affectoin). Girls need to be told they are loved? Men too need to be told they are MANLY.
there you go
2006-12-04 17:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously getting something out of these sites that he should be getting out of you but he isn't. Nevertheless he shouldn't be doing it and you should confront him about it if you plan on having a serious relationship with him before it gets out of control.
2006-12-04 17:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he does not meet these girls, he maybe at a fork in the road you need to lead him down the road that ends with you.
2006-12-04 17:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its an outlet for him, kind of like playing video games. Just make sure he does not go too far.
2006-12-04 17:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure all guys do this? It seems to be bothering you, ask him why he does this you need open communication in a relationship.
2006-12-04 17:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by David R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hasnt met up with any of them yet..but he probly will.think he is a player.just needs lotsa women around in any way he can.be careful
2006-12-04 17:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to see what is out there.
2006-12-04 17:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a stress relief as long as hes faithful to you dont worry about it
2006-12-04 17:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋