I am an eight grade boy. I need to find a date for a dance, but I don't how to ask a girl out! I have a secret crush on this girl at my school who is really SEXY AND HOT! but I don't know how to ask her! Please help me?
2006-12-04 08:54:35 · 11 answers · asked by rockonpats 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask her....she might say yes or no.....be yourself...
2006-12-04 08:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it would help if she was someone you usualy talk to, girls usually feel more comfortable going to dances with ppl they know. But even if you are friends yet, there is no harm in just going up to her and asking her straight up..."Hey wanna be my date for the dance?" I have a brother in 9th grade he gets sooo scared to ask girls so i had him practice coming and asking me and i would tell him NO as mean as I could so that when he did go ask the girl if she said no it wouldn't be such a big deal.
If you don't ask her you'll never know and spent alot of time wondering what if? So just go for it and ask, the worst that can happen is she'll say no. Not the end of the world I promise :) And remember girls like guys with confidence :)
2006-12-04 17:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by angie_elmo_005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secret Crush? well.. my young friend. girls like confident guys. take a deep breath.. think positive (what does she expect better than you asking her out for the dance?) go to her and tell her you think she has a dancer's body (make it sound like you're just commenting on anything.. just like a nice purse or ear ring) then you can extend that a bit to ask her if she's taken any dancing lessons (where? and how?) then tell her you're going to this really nice dancing party and you think she may enjoy going with you for it. be confident.. be straight and don't sound needy... if she doesn't wanna come.. she will lose the fun.. 'cause you WILL get another chick to go and have fun dancing with you :)
Good luck.
2006-12-04 17:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank goodness at least u still refer to yourself as boy. U are way too young to be using sexy and hot... anyway, just be brave and ask a girl out w/o trying to hard. Ask her like as if your asking a friend.
2006-12-04 16:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by bettyboop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound shy.You need to start acting sweet and be a lot more polite.Act the way you are and be respectful.[Do not hit her, act like a pig,be disrespectful or be rude.]First become her friend fast and then you can ask her out to the dance before someone else do.
2006-12-04 17:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do like Pedro did in Napolean Dynomite... Build her a cake or something!. You could go to a bakery and have them write, "Will you go to the dance with me?" on a giant chocolate chip cookie or a cake. Or, you could also start hanging out with her and see if you really like her and want to spend time and money on her. She may be beautiful on the outside, but is she ugly on the inside?
2006-12-04 16:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by A mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a really sweet thing to do is: give her a flower and tell her that she is very pretty and would like to ttake her to the dance.. or maybe you can try a little " love " note maybe sayin the lyrics from check yes or no : do you lie me do you wanna be my friend and if ya do then dont be afraid to take me by the hand check yes or no... or possibly both and tape it to her locker ( or put it in there if you can)
good luck
2006-12-04 16:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by gagrl_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear some nice clothes like a dress shirt and pants and just go up to her and ask her out. Give her a flower as you are asking her. It will melt her heart.
2006-12-04 16:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta just sack up and ask her dude. There nothing special or mystical that can be said that will sway here either way. if she like you she'll say yes. If she doesn't she'll say no. No's suck but hey that's life. Yes's are awesome!
2006-12-04 16:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by espactor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "will you go to the dance with me?"
it's alot easier than it sounds
2006-12-04 16:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by Pig girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you talk to her then grab her as*s and asker how she likes it if she gives a promising responce than ask her out and fuc*k the heel out of that as*s
2006-12-04 16:56:52 · answer #11 · answered by nate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋