Its just gets so lonely, waiting for a meaningful relationship. Or Im I wrong for wanting to have some fun?
2006-12-04 08:52:53 · 14 answers · asked by bob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I DONT mean jump on anything and everything I see....
2006-12-04 09:09:15 · update #1
You are very cute, so I don't think that there is nothing wrong with just wanting to play the field, but don't be upset if the girls you are after want something more.
2006-12-04 09:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I think that it's okay to play the field and stay single. If you are honest and respectful of the women you date, you will have much more fun in the dating pool. Why -not- have a little fun? That's what it's all about. Having fun meeting new people, and if you happen to find Ms. Right in the process, good for you.
2006-12-04 16:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only one time you can play the field and that is while you're single. you're not doing anything wrong (if as you say you are honest to the gals you meet, not fooling them into thinking u want r/s or using them etc).
contrary to popular belief,there are plenty of girls who are also content to just 'play the field' at this stage in their lives so as long as you are honest,no one gets hurt.
and who knows,one of these girls may just lead you to a meaninful relationship!you are more likely to meet the right woman thru continued socialising (even though it can be draining),then giving up or waiting for her to show up at your door!
good luck mate
2006-12-04 19:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as you are honest and don't lead someone on, its ok. I know alot of guys that have passed up on something that could have been meaningful just because they wanted to stay single though.
2006-12-04 16:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it, as long as you try hard not to earn a bad rap by being a serial dater. I would recommend getting a FwB, though. It's more respectable than serial dating, and more interesting and less work than a meaningful relationship.
2006-12-04 18:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having fun so be it...but if you are starting to think about relationships, there is safety in silence. Honesty is good, but not all women want to hear it....
Besides when the right one does come along, you will know it and it won't matter at that point....so go get 'em!!!!!!
2006-12-04 17:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all wrong with having fun as long as everybody involved knows. Single people need fun and sex too.
2006-12-04 16:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are completly honest with the girls then I dont think there is anything wrong with it. Good luck in all you do!
2006-12-04 16:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it if your honest. It's probably the best thing sometimes to just date around until you find someone worth committing to.
2006-12-04 16:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX. Holy hell, you "get lonely?" Give me a break, desperation should be the last thing you're feeling -- relief should be the first. You should be happy you're not shackled down by some chick out to burn your wallet.
2006-12-04 17:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by acuity007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋