My borhter always tries to go on MY computer (i got it for my b-day) wen i dont know about it. I was walking upstairs and i guess he didn't here me and i walked half way into my room. I seen my brother sitting in my computer chair with his penis out and he was jacking off so hard and fast i never bew someone can do it soo fast. He was watching porn and I heard it, It wasnt quiet and he was making alot of noises. What should I do about it. Should I tell him?
2006-12-04 08:34:59 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is older than me, and i snuck out of the room before he een noticed i was there
2006-12-04 08:42:01 · update #1
Oh my God. That's hilarious and horrifying at the same time! Yikes. Well.. it'd be one thing if he was doing it in the privacy of his own room, but seeing as he's doing it in your room, I think you have a right to say something. You don't want to walk in on him in the act again, afterall.
2006-12-04 08:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by Skyler789 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Caught Brother Masterbating
2017-01-18 10:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by rickert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! I caught my brother before and said really loud "ha ha ha ha, I caught you jacking off and I'm telling mom!" Looking back, that definitely wasn't the best thing to do because it must have really upset my brother. I would suggest confronting him "privately" and let him know that you would appreciate it if he could stay out of your room and tell him that you found "porn related material" on your Internet browser and you are not accusing him but you don't look at that kind of material and that kind of material can corrupt and destroy your new computer (it really can). By then he will be so embarrassed, chances are he will never come in your room again. I would also suggest a lock on the door just to be sure. Masturbation is completely normal but only in his own room. Good luck with your situation.
2006-12-04 08:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs_Rivera2U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! That's horrifying. LOL I can't stop laughing long enough to answer the question. Um.. maybe you should just tell him you don't want porn on your computer and ask him to respect your things. He would be mortified if you told him what you saw so just leave that part out of the conversation. If it happens again, maybe you should just say look I saw what you were doing and I'd appreciate it if you'd keep that in your own room.
2006-12-04 08:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're younger than he, but what age? That could be important, 'cause the younger you are, the bigger might have been your shock and the more embarassing it may be for you to tell your brother what you've seen.
What he did is normal for boys and girls, but what was not okay was that he did it in YOUR room, watching porns on YOUR PC and taking the risk being caught by YOU. He violated YOUR PRIVACY, and that's what you've got to talk about to him, not about masturbating. That he can continue to do wherever he wants, but not in your room.
Don't threaten him to tell your parents!
2006-12-04 08:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by corleone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhhhhhhh okay! Well, it's too late for interrupting him.... that's probably what I would've done to my brother. I agree that if you are friendly with your brother you might want to just let this one go. But if he teases you and makes your life miserable like my big brother did to me, I would definitely let him know that you caught him. I would also passport protect my computer. If he has to use your computer to do his dirty deeds then I'm assuming he doesn't have one of his own. Maybe you could suggest he spend less time cybering himself and more time finding a job!!!
2006-12-04 09:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by quickgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No because then he'll always be embarrassed around you and it's not going to achieve anything. It's normal what he was doing. I'd tell him off for being on your computer though. Tell him he left the monitor on or something and you know he was on it and ask him to respect your privacy. Maybe you could let him use it when he asks for it, then at least you know he's on it.
2006-12-04 08:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by kyls 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are 3 things you can do:
1. Put a little post it on your monitor that says "No Porn"
2. Put a password lock on your computer so that you can't access it unless you have that password.
or
3. Have the awkward "I saw you jerkin' off on my computer" conversation.
Your choice. Good luck either way.
2006-12-04 08:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Usual 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If we had computers around when we were young I do not know how I would react to this!!
Lock down your computer so he has no access!! Yuk! As a mother with three boys just do not act as if you saw anything. You would want the same....
Now to get this mental picture OUT of my head, out out, get out!! lol
2006-12-04 08:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put a password on your computer that won't allow him any access.
When he complains to you, or your parents... feel free to bust him out on his masturbation. Although masturbation is normal, and ok... he shouldn't be doing it in your room.. that's kind of sick.
Tell him he should ask for his own computer for Christmas(if you celebrate this), or his birthday or something.
2006-12-04 08:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋