so i had been goin around with this one guy wen he was here in texas wit me..we were sexualy involved and stuf ..he moved abt 2 months back to NY on work..but we still talk..and he even came all the way her on thnksgivin week to see me,..and we spent time togethr..had sex..lafed..talked..went to movies..etc etc.he likes me....i think..coz i know i hav al the qualities he wants in a girl.and also he keeps callin.n recently he said he ws thinkng of a "long term" relationship wit me..wt does this mean?? but the prob is, even tho i guess he likes me, hes still tryin to find a match for himself in his same caste...as we r indian..he is 27 n in the stage of marriage..so hes lookin out for chiks in his same caste n religion, etc...Why would he do this if he was sure abt me?? maybe he wants to luk around n make sure hes makin the rite decision?? AND HOW DO I HANDLE THE FACT THAT HES DOIN THIS...IS IT WRONG OF HIM..SHUD I JUS LET GO OF HIM...? pls advise me!
2006-12-04 08:33:01 · 3 answers · asked by sneha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're having sex with him but you only think he likes you...you're not sure. First of all, don't have sex with anyone until you at least have a ring and a date. The ideal is that you don't have sex with them until you're married. You are risking an STD and more importantly, a baby. From your writing, it sounds like you're younger than this guy. Posssilby 20 or 21? Or younger. Don't lure a guy with your vagina. Be a woman of class and personal integrity. Be a woman of respect. Even your Indian heritage teaches you that.
Let this guy go and next time don't have sex. Sex is an extremely intimate act that is spiritually bonding. Now you're confused and have an attachment with this man and you know virtually nothing about him. Read the book....Ten Stupid Things Women do to Mess Up Their Lives.....
2006-12-04 08:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this different guy seems no longer so marvelous and is no longer possibly taking issues to heart as you're. evidently he needs to have relaxing and be conscious what else is obtainable... no longer really to committ. try now to not lose any sleep over it.. The extra you carry on to this guy the more durable it is going to likely be believe me!! Its tricky to stroll away notwithstanding it is going to likely be more durable and extra hurtful that you'll be able to stick it out and be conscious what occurs... in the adventure that your ex is seeing someone.. enable him see what's obtainable.. possibly he's basically looking for himself and be conscious what he's really fascinated in. I have got here upon it.. that the further room you provide a mate.. the further likely they're to go back again to you.. in case you keep on them,.. they comprehend they were given you properly the position they want you and then they are going to toy with you. Take a deep breath flow carry out with associates or basically flow take in a movie or 2.. dont keep at abode waiting for this guy.. flow on.. you'd be alot extra valuable off interior the top hon.. keep your chin up.. in case you want to communicate extra. i'd be at liberty to lend a ear :)
2016-10-16 11:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your heart and head say to you? If there is anything that does not feel right you might need to talk to him and see what is in his head.
Both of you have to be sure.
2006-12-04 08:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by stbill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋