I am really thinking about running away from home with my boyfriend, because our parents won't let us see each other after my Mom walked in on us having sex. My parents are soooooo evil it was there idea for us not to see each other anymore ! I mean it really isn't my fault my parents got home from vacation early !!! I am not even a bad person I have a 4.2 GPA, I have a job, I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs I just have sex with my boyfriend ! They are evil I mean everyone has sex sometime in there life, my parents have sex, his parents have sex !!!
Other Info:
-I am 16 (17 in two weeks) and my boyfriend 17(since April)
-We have been together for 3 years and known each other since like preschool (Our familys were friends)
2006-12-04 07:38:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know I am really confused because I love him soooooo much, I mean I would die for him and I know he feels the same way. And, I don't want to hurt my parents or his but we are both really depressed about what they are doing to us :(
2006-12-04 07:56:52 · update #1
Don't run away - it's a romantic and exciting idea, but in reality it's no fun one you are broke with nowhere to sleep!
Keep seeing your boyfriend and studying hard, save money and one day soon you can move out of there and go live your life the way you want, without your parents telling you what to do.
Independence is great, but you need to have a plan to get there and make sure you can support yourself financially etc.
PS horrible having your Mum walk in!!!!!!! Maybe stick to his house, not your own!
2006-12-04 07:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ambience 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you think is going to happen if and/or when you run away? There's not some magical place in the sky where you can go and finish your education, be self-supporting, live on nothing. You have the potential of accomplishing some pretty great things...you have an excellent G.P.A. and probably many educational opportunities. I'd suggest you focus on the life you'll be able to enjoy once you leave your parent's home....they're probably just concerned that you'll be tripped up by the attraction to your boyfriend. So, I suggest you try to show your parents that you are mature enough to make your own decisions and that you regret what happened. Don't do anything crazy that will have a negative effect on your future.
2006-12-04 15:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents, like an adult and ask them to treat you as an adult as well. Do not yell or argue just make your points.
YOu are obviously in love after 3 years, if you are not on birthcontrol explain that you would like to be so you can be more responsible, apoligize for what happend because you were in their house under their rules and you understand it was wrong and understand why they are so upset. Tell them you will take your punishment any other way than to stop seeing him.
Make sure to get the point across that you will find a way to be with him any way you can b/c you love each other to much to stay apart. Even if you have to be under supervision of your parents when he is at your house. B/c if you really love him I'm sure you can deal with that. It'll be hard but maybe they will come to some ground rules and you 2 can be together.
Explain that you are being responsible in school and your job and that you do not give in to peer pressure with drugs and alchohol so it should be clear that you can be responsible with your boyfriend too.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-04 16:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously your not Innocent. your only 16 OMG I'm a year younger than you, wow I cant imagine myself doing that. but don't run away I know you don't like what their doing. I'm sure I wouldn't.
lol can’t see each other hm..... your parents are a bit confused but on the sex part NO! I can understand why their mad your only 16 and you might end up having a baby next year wile going to school
that does not.................. sound like fun.
Take care and don’t let your self get hurt.
2006-12-04 15:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see him any more. Then, wait until you're 18 or 19 and out on your own (a legal, emancipated, adult), and then you can get back together with him again if you are no longer living under your parents' roof where they are paying all the bills.
2006-12-04 15:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stupid? I see runaways every week on the road. Do you like eating from dumpsters? sleeping under bridges? As for your boyfriend, if your parents didn't press charges on him for statutory rape, he will get charges for running away with you, up to kidnapping depending on the law in your state. Grow up, if you run, you will either be dead, homeless, or a prostitute. Your choice.
2006-12-04 15:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that 16 is to young and that may be why your parents do what they do. and even though u are a good girl, that may not be all of it. they wnat u to be carefull, if u know what i mean and in the other way to. be patinet and DONT RUN AWAY!
2006-12-04 15:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by cute_shorty_878 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the two of you feel that you can continue your education, work full time to afford to support yourselves it's your decision, but I would wait until I was older. Your parents are acting like parents and are not evil.
2006-12-04 15:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you shouldn't run away.
They aren't evil they are being parents.
Yes you have a job but not enought to afford an apt.
or water bill, or electricity, or heat.
Or food.
Not to mention you need to continue school.
Give it time, they will lighten up.
Your parents are being good parents.
2006-12-04 15:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by T <3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Running away will not solve your problems but cause more for you. Your parents are being parents.
2006-12-04 15:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by T B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋