Look I've been dating my girl for 5months and we are going stong but I dont know what to do because I feel like I love her but I question myself on do I really love her and feeling like this makes me think that I might just mess it up
2006-12-04 07:34:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It has only been 5 months give it time. You don't have to know right now if you love her or not. Don't put pressure on yourself cause then that will make you mess up.
2006-12-04 07:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you REALLY have to want to be faithfull though. Not just because it's the "right" thing to do, but because this person means that much to you. If you have tried before and can't then you might need to seek help from a therapist or something, it can be a problem related to something that you've had deep in your concious that's been effecting you for years that you haven't even though about. Good luck
2006-12-04 15:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about how you feel.if you arnt commited enough yet down the road you might break her hart. and no one whants that. women really love when a guy opens up and tells them how they feel about the relation ship.talk about it and go for it. but deffenently dont go any farther if you are thinking about other women and being in anouther relation ship. be hounest with her and you will go far with her.even if it ends up you too dont work together she will think of you as the most hounest guy she knows. try it it will work i swear
2006-12-04 15:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts, then perhaps it doesn't mean to you as much as you would like it too. However, anyone can have doubts from time to time and so long as you don't out act out negatively to them then you really have nothing to worry about. Furthermore, I'm sure the chick will ease any doubts you have if they are in fact nothing in time...
2006-12-04 15:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should no the answer to that one. the one thing grls do hate is players. i dated one and after we broke up he went out wit someone the next day... it makes ppl feel like crap and hurts the grls feelings. stic to the one that likes u and that u like. dont break up wit domeone just because u think it might hurt ur rep. if she really likes u she will give tons of chances if u mess up.
2006-12-04 15:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by rockergrl202 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I believe that you have grown up and you feel that you can commit now try it out and if it doesn't don't work out before you hurt her then let her go.
2006-12-04 15:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by ambular 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her do your best not to **** up. Maybe you were a player because you didnt find a girl that you really liked
2006-12-04 15:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow your heart. If its the right girl you won't mess up.
2006-12-04 15:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think so much, thats whats messing you up.
Do you know right from wrong, I think you do. Then strive to do that wich is right. If you screw up in that arena she won't hold it against you.
2006-12-04 15:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont feel insecure or u will mess it up. listen to ur heart if it tells u u love her then listen and dont fell unsure
2006-12-04 15:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by Shortie<3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋