I'm completely fed up with my boyfriend's manipulative ways. When he screws up he always twists things and makes it seem as if i'm the bad one, the one that hurt him and the one that doesn't deserve his love or anything from him for that matter. It annoys the hell out of me that he can't be open and just accept what is really going on. And when i try to talk to him and lay the facts on the table, what i felt, and why i react like i do he says i'm being stupid and that i'm hurting him by pretending to not know what the problem is, and he denies having said hurtful things. I just want us to get along, that's why even when he's acting like an a*s i try to talk and see him, cause i don't want to break up or stay mad for something so stupid and irrelevant. I don't like playing games, but how can i make him come to his senses? at other times he can be rational (when it's not about him), but this time he just chooses to ignore me when it comes to saying why he acted badly in the first place.
2006-12-04 07:34:01 · 6 answers · asked by jade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a 3sum with 2 other girls, video tape it, and for christmas give it to him.. Then tell him thats what he couldve have then dump his ***.. And call me..
2006-12-04 07:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by hockeytwn09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's about 4 years old, you're not going to change him. Cut your losses and leave, or be ready to deal with this for the rest of your life.
If you do something to "teach him a lesson", he'll just use this as further "proof" that everything is your fault. And this time he'll have something to concrete to back it up. He will bring it up every time as evidence that things are your fault, not his.
It's your decision - how long do you want to deal with this behavior?
2006-12-04 07:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and don't look back.
If you stay with someone who treats you that way, they learn that it is okay to treat people that way. This is emotional abuse and there is no way to change it other than removing yourself from the situation before it gets worse.
2006-12-04 07:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and move on to someone else. Getting revenge will only make you stoop down to his low level, which ultimately gets you nowhere.
2006-12-04 07:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he tries to blaim you just tell him that you don't want to argue,maybe it will make him have the same atitude.
2006-12-04 07:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ianc V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk out of his life or threatin him and see how he reacts.
2006-12-04 07:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by mixalot2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋