I met a guy through the internet, we talked a lot before I would meet him and he's really sweet. I meet him the Sat, before last for the first time and I spent the night. I have also seen him twice more, he's taken me to his friend's bday party, with similar endings (he's a beast;). I feel really attached to him as he to me. We are a bit older 22 & 19 and we both know a bit about the other's past and are fine with it.
The funny thing is that one of his friends (who also later tried hitting on me) said that we are really close for only just meeting. I never really have done the big relationship thing before and I was wondering if we are going too fast, I don't think so, but I don't know much either.
2006-12-04 07:32:26 · 11 answers · asked by jowolf87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its never too fast. If you feel is right and he does too. Who cares what other people say. Its what you think and feel. Relax and enjoy the time
2006-12-04 07:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off, if you really care for this guy, go with your heart. as for the other person that tried to hit on you, tell your new friend about it, then tell the person that tried to hit you to hit the road instead. follow your heart, listen to the words of that song for more information as to how you feel or want to be. remember, life sorts out and sometimes confuses the true issues and meanings of life. you might try this to clear up the issue. begin by touching your heart, if you like, and smile to yourself in tender appreciation and care. Holding the sincere wish to be of benefit to yourself and others, take a few deep breaths, relax your body, and bring your awareness to the area in the center of your chest around your heart. this will give you the answers to the question without asking a question looking for an answer. good luck and always keep and open mind
2006-12-04 07:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by jh452004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the begining of any relationship, things always start off great. You are getting to know one another. Sooner or later that facade will wear off and the true you will come shining through. i would put the brakes on it for a little while longer. Don't spend the night at his house, and don't have sex with him. You need to take things slow and get to really know one another.
2006-12-04 07:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too fast, only is too fast if you feel it's too fast.
How can someone tell you what's too fast or too slow?
It's all in you what is right, you'd know if it were too fast because you'll have the feeling of wanting to back off alittle.
2006-12-04 07:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by ▒♥▒♥▒♥▒♥▒™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - put your Brakes on NOW! This Internet thing will go Nowhere! Trust me, I been watching the "horror" cases on shows like Judge Judy on, these guys are "predators", don't go any further, and I am quite sure that if you hadn't "put out" on the first meeting, he wouldn't be seeing you now! Listen to this guys friend, he just gave you "a HEADS UP", now don't go any further.
2006-12-04 07:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not going fast, if you dont feel like you are going fast cuz people have different opinions on what is going fast and what is not. It is up to you if you are going fast with him or not; if you really like him and feel like you can be with him then it is not going fast, it is going just right
2006-12-04 07:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to take a step back. By taking it slower and leaving out the sexual activity you can see if he is serious or just wants to get laid. Make sure he's in it for the long haul.
2006-12-04 07:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like you are moving fast. You are both young. Take it a little slower and make sure he is who you want to be with. Don't mistake loneliness for love...
2006-12-04 07:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going way to fast
2006-12-04 07:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you and he can answer that question my dear.
2006-12-04 07:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋