My girlfiend gets so pissed so easily. she will bring up my ex and then get pissed at me bc i had an old girlfriend that i had sex with. she has had sex with her old boyfriends so i don't understand why i get yelled at for it, it was before i met her. she will do something and its ok for her to do it but if i do it then i get yelled at, it seems that she gets so pissed off for the littlest things and won't even listen to me when i say sorry or try to touch her at all. idk what to do i mean i know she loves me and i love her more than anything but it seems she might be kind of bi-polar and i really dont want to tell her that. i'm not an asshole and she even says that i'm so nice to her and that i'm a great boyfriend, i want to marry her someday but i need to figure out how to deal with her bein pissed off all the time. any ideas?
2006-12-04 07:15:15 · 15 answers · asked by rx8mazdaguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~She's controlling because she hasn't had any control of her life?Don't marry her, you'll end up pissin yourself off.~
2006-12-04 07:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, My Husband and I went through this same deal. Except he was the one getting pissed at me! And he had done some worse things than me in my past...But that isn't the point here at all. Anyway, the reason she gets pissed is because she is jealous that some other girl has had you. You know? And you need to explain how those girls didn't mean anything near to what she means to you....if you feel that way. And tell her you would still be a virgin if you would have met her first. I know it sounds crazy but with my situation it was true...and I had to convence him of that..Just tell her everything in your heart and be honest! DONT tell her she is bi-polar!!! Do you want to die??? haha. But really she isn't bi-polar.....just jealous! And that in itself can make you crazy. Just hang in there talk to her and give it sometime....
2006-12-04 07:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Just here. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy! u are lucky, u have someone who loves u a lot. First of all try to figure out what piss her off. Try not to do anything that makes her upset. May be she thinks u are not mature enough and things u do are not good for u. May be she thinks u need to protected or may be she is afraid of losing that's why she is trying to control u. Let her know u never mean to u piss her off, willing to do what ever makes her happy, u love her a lot , and always be with her. I hope every thing works out for u.
2006-12-04 07:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Toronto boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she didnt b itch to u before
wells something behind all of this non sense
find out what it is
u know half of it she is mad about u having sex with ur ex try to find out why and help her cope with it
confront the issue and help her
so she could stop her ways
many people feel that the best way is to avoid it
no u need to confront cuz ur problems will never stop until u end the relationship and i know u dont want that
thats why u r on here asking this question
2006-12-04 07:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds VERY familiar! When I think back on how I let my ex get under my skin deeper and deeper, over the years and how I should have cut off communications with her a long time ago it makes me SO upset, because just as she cracked my shell "so to speak" she took off and left me with a huge scar on my heart. Don't give her the chance to hurt you please, just walk away if you find yourself constantly being the "bad-guy" even when you KNOW you've done nothing wrong!
2006-12-04 07:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it have been me, you would be out of my existence, for stable. in case you do no longer admire her any further than that, she would not choose you. Any lady who has to flow to artwork with a hickie is stated and ridiculed. each lady merits to be dealt with greater efficient with the aid of the guy who says he cares approximately her.considering you purposely did this, you're an fool, to think of that she could be much less mad at you. i do no longer see everywhere which you're saying you remorseful approximately your selection to, intentionally, embarrass her. that asserts how a lot you care approximately her thoughts, and it relatively is needless to say, no longer a lot. you would be embarrassed approximately your self! She could discover somebody who cares adequate approximately her to admire her, and which will tutor her greater compassion than you have!
2016-10-04 21:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would honestly tell her how you feel about it. Talk to her and let her know what you think and ask what she thinks. Be nice about it and make sure when you decide to talk to her that it is in a non-confrontational type of way. Don't do it in the middle of a heated argument. Make the time to do it.
2006-12-04 07:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will NEVER ever get her to stop her pissy attitude.
If you ever marry she will always bring up your past and you will never be able to bring up hers.
Would you ever want to marry someone that will always screech for nothing and bring up a past she was never in?
Tell her good bye and good luck. She sounds scary
2006-12-04 07:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by spider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get rid of her attitude are find the road, If she cares about you the attitude will go, and if she don't loose the attitude, you ain't loosing nothing anyway, no one needs another crab
2006-12-04 07:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
understand that this is the way she is before you get married and decide if this is the kind of person you want.
2006-12-04 07:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight fire with fire,play her game.Make her feel the same way you do and after that tell her that you don't like this part of her and that if you can change for her she can change for you
2006-12-04 07:19:41 · answer #11 · answered by Ianc V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋