Why do men lose interest after a few years?

Question

How do you get a non commital guy to commit? What makes a man go to the next level in a realtionship?

Answer 1

I have been with a few non-committal guys. In fact, I am married to one. Go figure.

My advice to you is this: Non-committal guys are simply guys that won't settle for less than what they absolutely want. Often times, these guys have very high standards in women (though this isn't always the case). They may date an average woman but will not 'settle' with anyone that does not match his "ideal".

That kind of guy only goes to the next level when he feels he wants to, period. If he finds "The One" he will commit and not until then. And, even if he feels that you might be the one, he will not make the commitment until he is absolutely 100% sure that it is the right decision for the both of you.

So, I really don't believe that it has anything to do with losing interest. It is merely the fact that they decide that the person they are with is not the one for them.

You can not make any guy commit until he is ready, period. Good luck in finding the man that you are meant to be with. And, remember, all good things take time.

Answer 2

Guys only get bored when they are not being challenged in the relationship...there has to be something to commit to...What are you doing to keep him interested in you? What are doing that makes him think of nothing but you?

There are many things you can do aside from giving it up more...break out from your routine and try different things. If you are in the "we do this on monday and that on thursday" routine...then you are sunk...he has already lost interest...

Spice it up and go out...if the two of you can't afford to go out all the time, then do something that doesn't cost much...but do something different...the only reason guys look is to find somethignthat is not in the usual routine....

Got it? Good....

Answer 3

Honestly, because some guys get bored with the relationship. Its either the women fall into the same ol same ol routine.. But there are many reasons.. Mix it up.. Try different things sexually.. Dress up for him, or bring in another girl.. Become spontaneous, and take him away for a vacation just the two of you.. There are many ways to spice up and renew the love lost, you just have to be willing to try new things..

Answer 4

First of all, you need to understand that you cannot change a man. No matter how hard you try. Now, he can change himself, but he is only going to do it for the right girl. The girl that he feels is right for him, not what you think is right for him. You can try to push his had by threatening to leave, but I think you are better off telling him how you really feel. At least then he knows and you will feel better too.

Answer 5

i always hear women say "my man needs to stay interesting for me to stay with him"
believe it or not, men need the same thing, it's not always about how good you are in bed! If you want a man to commit, you need to keep it interesting also.

Answer 6

Growth between the two of you will be the deciding factor...if your relationship was hased on sex, then you are doomed to failure. It it was based on love, then you have a chance.

Hen-pecking, and constistent nagging is one sure way to drive a man away from you. You can't change anyone, except yourself.

Answer 7

U will gain nothing by forcing a commitment by tricks, it should come naturally in all ups and downs. UNDERSTAND

Answer 8

WHy do women gain weight after a few years? Or cut their hair? Or nag incessantly? Geez I have issues.

Answer 9

i think woman knows beter than men to reply for your question because she must know what he needs and what he like or hate to capture his attention and have his geart.

Answer 10

If he loves you he wont mind or care if your just his girlfriend than he will fight it till the end